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Luz @aphrodite.aphroditus

The danger of white liberals is that those invested in maintaining power, those who see their whiteness as property will be in spaces that purport to move toward equity and will only take and use the constructs that benefit their project. This is dangerous because it sounds and looks like equity and inclusion but people of the global majority (see:people of color) are silenced—and only allowed to speak and be known in distorted ways (Dotson). They may even co-opt the very narratives, theories, constructs posed by the oppressed and use it for their benefit—while the livelihoods of those whose narratives were co-opted remains unchanged.
slide 10/42 of a PowerPoint that took me eight hours to put together. O.o
It’s 4 am and I’m still working on a PowerPoint I swore was going to take me a couple hours at most. It’s been 7 hours. *breaks fourth wall—stares into camera.
somatic adjective so·​mat·​ic sō-ˈma-tik sə- 1 : of, relating to, or affecting the body especially as distinguished from the germplasm
IYKYK
I realize I like gay men because the majority of gay men aren’t hypersexualizing women. Women are cited as going to gay clubs to “escape” being harassed or citing feeling “free to let their guards down”. Misogyny operates in complex, multifaceted ways, where a woman’s (cis or trans) or feminine individual’s personhood is understood ( in heterosexist spaces) in relationship to the male gaze. That is one’s being is read and understood through the POV of the men present. Where a man’s humanity is presupposed as superior— a sort of ontological truth. This is how misogyny and the gendered racialization thereof (transmysoginoir) is both enacted and upheld by men and women alike.
Excerpt from “Black Joy: Stories of Resistance, Resilience, and Restoration” (Chptr. 8)
corporeal adjective cor·​po·​re·​al kȯr-ˈpȯr-ē-əl 1 : having, consisting of, or relating to a physical material body: such as a : not immaterial or intangible
Ana Mendieta
happy place.
On HIV/AIDS and pathologization of gay men and lesbians and the implication of racialization of Haitian men engaged in sex work. Source: Let the Record Show: A Political History of ACT UP New York, 1987-1993, Sarah Schulman (2021) *some of the language is a bit outdated but the history remains.
me trying to hit my protein intake for the day.
I really am the girl from “Girl Interrupted” with my rotisserie chickens. IYKYK
Decolonization is not a metaphor. Tuck & Yang (2012)
source: Decolonization is not a metaphor. Tuck & Yang (2012)
Early B-day brunch with PhD girlies.
“In political moments how we build the world with each other actually draws us into our collective struggle” -Kristie Dotson
my epistemic orientation.
A Phenomenology of whiteness. Ahmed, Sara (2007).
Dehumanization:An Integrative Review, Haslam, Nick (2006)
Reading social psychology papers on how heterosexual, cisgender individuals feel about- and understand transgender individuals and the associations with homosexuality, lesbianism, and ambiguity. And it feels like I know too much...— I’ve also used what I know from the literature to keep me safe from violence over the years. What I’ve read has informed my choice of partners and my understanding of public and private space. It’s both libratory and painful.
Miss Major Griffin-Gracy
The question is not whether I am a woman or not. The question is whether I, as a transfeminine person, am deserving of equal rights and protection. Let’s start there.
“For the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house. They may allow us temporarily to beat him at his own game, but they will never enable us to bring about genuine change. And this fact is only threatening to those [individuals] who still define the master’s house as their only source of support.” -Audre Lorde
Learning to be careful with starting the conversation (argument) etc. from the point of departure of the individual doing the work of the oppressor. For the question might not be situated within the framework they are proposing but elsewhere.
On critical race theory. Source: Race Frameworks: A Multidimensional Theory of Racism and Education Zeus Leonardo
Happy (Mid-western) Halloween
On “woman” as a concept . Source: The Biopolitics of Feeling.

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