I find two primary underlying motivations exist in my decision making in relationships. And from many open, vulnerable conversations, it’s a common experience for many others. 1. Abundance; there’s always another ‘hotter’, ‘more interesting’, ‘different’ guy available, perhaps just 500m down the road or just another match away. The world is literally at my fingertips. 2. Scarcity; ‘if I don’t settle for this guy, maybe another like him won’t come’. How do I navigate the two extremes? Help!