To my queer people, falling into the traps of societal expectations about stereotypes is crucial on how you describe and introduce yourself to others. Be real for you not others, be consistent on your values and actions that excel your performance. You’re excellent, perfectly imperfect and healthy enough, going to the gym doesn’t make you healthier, if your spirit is rotten, keep that in mind. Stay in your light, so you can be somebody else’s. Love, Frank.