can I spill my thoughts for a second? For those of y’all that like discussion. so, I’m almost 27. Never dated, or had sex. Not even a first kiss 🫣 Other cis gays don’t really find me attractive, but trans men typically *adore* me (just an observation). For example: I went to WeHo last night, and I was incredibly drunk. A trans guy started grinding on me and kissing me, although I was much too drunk and uninterested to kiss back. I’ve been trying to deconstruct how I felt about that encounter. In the moment, I didn’t mind because I enjoyed the physical contact and I was drunk as fuck. But I don’t know for sure how I would feel when sober. Yes, trans men are men, but I will admit it made me ask some questions about myself. And I think that’s okay! I’ve never even so much as touched another 🍆 , let alone full blown sex with a (cis) guy, and honestly idk if I ever will or even want to now 😂 I’ve never gotten that kind of attention from other cis men, so I’m thinking my destiny probably lies with a trans guy (or even a woman, but that’s considerably less likely). I’m working on figuring out how I feel about that, but also how to potentially pursue that without seeming chaser-y.

growing up I always considered myself gay. but now I don’t even like using that label, it’s interesting. my attraction is definitely predominantly (if not exclusively) towards men, but I tend not to call myself a gay man.

Y’all love posting a thirst trap with a sliver of peen in it 🙂‍↕️ I’m not complaining.

ya know, lately I’ve noticed that women (in general) have always found me attractive but men (in general) never have. and perhaps that’s the universe trying to tell me something.

The biggest mistake I notice with people’s styling is that they often wear items “right out of the bag” with no modifications. No no no! You have to cuff, roll a sleeve, cinch the waist a bit, etc. something subtle can make a big difference.

hmmm I might pivot to trying personal styling. I often get compliments on my outfits or asked for style advice. If any of y’all want to be some of my first clients (for free!), lemme know 😌 (Amending this to add: my lane at the moment is going to only be menswear since that’s more my forte)