After 8 years in dating apps hoping I would find my dream partner here’s what I understood: 1) the biggest joy is to find things that bring you joy, not a partner. 2) after being rejected over and over again you develop resilience and confidence 3) someone would be very lucky to have you, trust this 4) shift your mindset from chasing to attraction. 5) if they only want your nudes, they probably have a terrible relationship with their self-esteem. 6) if they have poor self-esteem it doesn’t matter how much you love them, they won’t feel worthy of your love. You can’t give to those who aren’t open to receive.