Sebastian VonChourio (@sailormars) • Collective gay friends app

Sebastian VonChourio @sailormars

Photographer, Creative Director, and Music producer

The last step to freedom is borderline delusion

Love my renaissance inspired sweater

Halloweening 👻

We could be nice to each other

The night I became an angel

Softly playing in the rain

This is an album about grieving the need for revenge, because you value yourself more than all of the pain that was inflicted upon you.

Weeping Willies, you and me dance to death? Are you out of your mind? Off course I do. Meet in in the pale moonlight.

Your self perception will change the day you stop thinking for other people. Example: if you keep thinking people find you unattractive that’s what you will experience until you change the thought. Think for yourself

Angels are around you at all times.

Does the fear of being unlovable stop you from feeling loved? If it does, that’s the feeling that’s blocking you from feeling loved.

Angels in my mind, I bless you all the time.

Guy names that I love: -Adrian -Cedric -Ariel -Claude -Laurent -Beau -Nicholas What about you?

Gracias dios por hacerme latino

Kiss me hard before you go

Autumn is that season

Dropped a pin 📍

This could be us

Let’s fuck here.

Dear lord from up above, don’t let this love I have for him be the last mistake I make... I loved him to death.

Baby, where the hell is my husband?

Teach your body emotionally what’s like to be seen.

Life gave you a body to love it

Kiss me so deeply I forget the line where you begin and I end.

Through multiple sources on a continuous basis

Siri, set a reminder that I’m paradise.

The reason why I don’t like to go to the office.

Let’s fuck here, here and here.

Our vacation home has the best view

You’re always there to catch me

Apologies sir, I can’t miss this sunset

Be so delusional reality bends to your will.

Here are the 3 things I would tell my younger self if I had to start dating gay men again. -watch out of those that are insecure, they will project their insecurities at you and blame you because you don’t have them. -if they have poor self steem they will ask you to diminish yourself, and your value (if you agree to this your self steem with be devalued in the relationship) - They have more than 100 nudes in their phone, yours might give them satisfaction for a few minutes but they will keep on collecting more. {If they really wanted to hangout and connect, they would (no nudes required) }

After 8 years in dating apps hoping I would find my dream partner here’s what I understood: 1) the biggest joy is to find things that bring you joy, not a partner. 2) after being rejected over and over again you develop resilience and confidence 3) someone would be very lucky to have you, trust this 4) shift your mindset from chasing to attraction. 5) if they only want your nudes, they probably have a terrible relationship with their self-esteem. 6) if they have poor self-esteem it doesn’t matter how much you love them, they won’t feel worthy of your love. You can’t give to those who aren’t open to receive.

To be loved and respected is healthier, and more fulfilling than to be liked while chasing approval. You don’t need to earn anything to receive love and respect. It’s not something you earn but rather something you give.

If you feel unloveable this is for you, the only reason why you’re in this planet biologically is because deep within you there’s a heart beating to keep you here. Your thoughts might contribute to your survival but at the end of the day your heart has the final say; so if you would stop listening to the noise of your thoughts and you would listen to the sound of your heart you would begin to understand the reason why you’re here. That heart of yours is the one that loves you and wants you here. Not other people 😉