So... my husband has decided to smoke marijuana, behind my back, for the last three months. I found the pens on one of his business trip. This isn’t the first time he’s broken my trust... but it’s always sort of small things. It’s never cheating, or physical/financial abuse. On Reddit, I read a lot of relationship dilemmas among gay men. But never ones where they get through it. I may sound old but people are forgetting how to get through things, in this glossy world. You don’t know how many countless times I read “break up” as the answer for almost every and any relationship issue- especially among the younger generation. And I get it. We’ve almost divorced twice. I even moved out. It was really bad, but we fought hard for the relationship- cause we love each other. My husband and I are going to figure it out. And I feel like that needs to be known, because like I said, we’re forgetting how to stay together. Because maybe everyone thinks that everyone’s else’s lives are so perfect, and theirs need to be too. It doesn’t. ❤️