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Alex (@alexlau) - Collective Profile | San Francisco, US πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡ΈπŸ‡­πŸ‡°πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ πŸ“πŸŒ 🌈 board at frameline πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ’» uw at zurich Follow @alexlau on Instagram and @alexlau on Twitter. Recent posts: two men pose together, one shirtless, in a gym setting. one man holds a sign celebrating a fitness milestone., a man takes a mirror selfie in a gym, showcasing his muscular physique. the red lighting adds a dramatic effect to the image., a man takes a mirror selfie in a gym, showcasing his physique. he is shirtless and wrapped in a towel., a man takes a mirror selfie in a dressing room. he is shirtless and wearing black shorts and white socks., a promotional graphic for a hyrox event in mechelen, belgium, scheduled for march 27-29, 2026. the text is set against a black background with a yellow highlight., a group of four men pose shirtless in front of a barry's castro sign. they are all in athletic shape., a group of men pose for a photo, some shirtless, flexing their muscles. they are celebrating a birthday at a gym., two men pose for a photo after a 5k run, both wearing medals. one man is shirtless, showing off his physique., a group of men take a selfie after a workout. they are all smiling and appear to be in good spirits., a group of friends pose for a photo on a city street. the image captures a moment of friendship and joy., a group of men pose shirtless in a gym. the barry's castro logo is visible in the background., a collection of mill valley film festival merchandise, including a t-shirt, hat, and cup, is displayed on a table., a group of shirtless men pose for a selfie at folsom street fair. many are wearing sunglasses and leather harnesses., two shirtless men pose in a gym, holding a sign that says "breaking records." the image is a mirror selfie, and the text overlay humorously references their husbands., two men pose together in front of a gym logo. one man is shirtless, and the other is wearing a t-shirt and shorts., .
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Alex @alexlau

πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡ΈπŸ‡­πŸ‡°πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ πŸ“πŸŒ 🌈 board at frameline πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ’» uw at zurich
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Two men pose together, one shirtless, in a gym setting. One man holds a sign celebrating a fitness milestone.
This baby boy is breaking records
A man takes a mirror selfie in a gym, showcasing his muscular physique. The red lighting adds a dramatic effect to the image.
If the work out was hard enough, then I get to reward myself with a thirst trap.
A man takes a mirror selfie in a gym, showcasing his physique. He is shirtless and wrapped in a towel.
Barry’s Pump
A man takes a mirror selfie in a dressing room. He is shirtless and wearing black shorts and white socks.
Dressed to use some boys. 😈
A promotional graphic for a Hyrox event in Mechelen, Belgium, scheduled for March 27-29, 2026. The text is set against a black background with a yellow highlight.
Will I be ready by March 2026? πŸ˜…
A group of four men pose shirtless in front of a Barry's Castro sign. They are all in athletic shape.
Another day, another class
A group of men pose for a photo, some shirtless, flexing their muscles. They are celebrating a birthday at a gym.
HBD Anthony!
Two men pose for a photo after a 5k run, both wearing medals. One man is shirtless, showing off his physique.
Diplo’s Run Club 2025
A group of men take a selfie after a workout. They are all smiling and appear to be in good spirits.
Work out crew this morning πŸ’ͺ🏻
A group of friends pose for a photo on a city street. The image captures a moment of friendship and joy.
Diego and Alex!
A group of men pose shirtless in a gym. The Barry's Castro logo is visible in the background.
250 with Friends πŸ₯°
A collection of Mill Valley Film Festival merchandise, including a t-shirt, hat, and cup, is displayed on a table.
Who is going to the MVFF tonight?
A group of shirtless men pose for a selfie at Folsom Street Fair. Many are wearing sunglasses and leather harnesses.
Folsom Weekend! Where are the submissive boys at?
Two shirtless men pose in a gym, holding a sign that says "Breaking Records." The image is a mirror selfie, and the text overlay humorously references their husbands.
I still don’t get why this app exists, but here’s a thirst trap!
Two men pose together in front of a gym logo. One man is shirtless, and the other is wearing a t-shirt and shorts.
First stop in NYC: Blaine’s Class!
A group of four men pose shirtless in a gym. The men are smiling and appear to be friends.
Guests at 6am
Three men pose for a selfie in a movie theater. A movie title is displayed on the screen behind them.
Just went to a private screening of β€œThe History of Sound” starring Paul Mescal and Josh O’Connor. My friend Elliot Yates had a brief appearance in the film - his first feature!
A shirtless man takes a mirror selfie, showing off his physique. He holds a drink in one hand.
Anyone takes Barry’s? I think I’m going to use this app to just post work out pics.
A group of friends pose for a photo, celebrating a birthday. Balloons in the background spell out the number 37.
HBD Jake <3
A promotional poster for "The Last Five Years" musical, featuring Ben Platt and Rachel Zegler. The poster is a vertical rectangle with the title and cast names prominently displayed.
Me. The answer is me.
A man takes a mirror selfie after a workout, shirtless and wrapped in a towel. He holds a drink, showcasing his physique.
The workout doesn’t count without a picture.
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless and wrapped in a towel. The photo highlights his muscular physique.
A man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his physique. He is shirtless, with visible abs and wearing Calvin Klein underwear.
Arms & Abs Thirst Trap Mondays
A man takes a shirtless selfie in a gym, holding a drink and wrapped in a towel. The photo highlights his muscular physique.
How many post workout selfies can I take in 2 weeks? Turns out it’s 14.
A man takes a mirror selfie in a gym, shirtless and wearing a towel. He is flexing his muscles and holding up a thumbs up.
Double day!
Two men pose in front of a colorful backdrop. They are both smiling and dressed in suits.
How many events can I go to in one day?
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless and wearing black Versace underwear. He is in a bathroom with gold and white tile.
Tina Turner’s β€œThe Best” came on in the showers at Barry’s and I started dancing, feeling completely free. Then I rememberedβ€”1989. Gay men were still dying. They thought sex was a death sentence. I got to have this silly, beautiful moment they never did. I danced for them today.
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless and wrapped in a towel. The background features a modern bathroom with gold tiles.
5 classes down, 16 more to go!
A man poses shirtless, flexing his abs. He is holding a sign that says "Alex Hits 250".
250 Solo Shot!
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless, in a gym. He has a muscular physique and is holding a phone.
21 classes in 31 days… kill me. 2 done, 19 more to go!
Two men pose for a photo at a bar. They are both smiling and wearing casual summer attire.
Matt!
Three men pose in front of a gym logo, two wearing tank tops and shorts, and one shirtless. The image captures a moment of fitness and camaraderie.
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless, in a gym. He has a muscular physique.
5am πŸ’€
A group of men pose shirtless in a gym. They are flexing and smiling for the camera.
Barry’s Boy
A man in a suit smiles while holding a microphone on stage. Behind him is a screen with the title of a film.
Had the privilege to host my friends Liam and Diego at FL49 for their wonderful new film β€œA Night Like This.”
The album cover for the movie "Aftersun" shows a man and a woman sitting on a beach, facing the ocean. The image is overlaid with a digital glitch effect.
When Paul was in NYC for Streetcar, I had the honor of telling him how life changing this film was for me. This song brings me back to that exact moment at the end of the film. If you haven’t watched Aftersun, highly recommend!
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