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Ben (@beniguess) - Collective Profile | Seville, ES Editor and Creative. Trying to make Buttertongue happen DM me queer things to write about, I like a challenge ;) Follow @benssteele on Instagram. Recent posts: a man and a woman, likely a couple or family members, pose for a selfie with their tongues sticking out. the man is in the foreground, with the woman slightly behind him., a travel itinerary card displays 'nîmes' with a french flag, indicating a 6-day visit from may 29th to june 3rd, with an airplane icon signifying travel., a person takes a mirror selfie in a hallway, wearing a denim shirt, brown jacket, and dark jeans., the post is text-based, with no image provided., a woman and a man ride an escalator together. the woman is in the foreground, looking at the camera and holding a phone. the man is behind her, making a peace sign., an artistic illustration of a woman with long, wavy red hair, captured mid-yawn with her mouth wide open. the background is a textured orange, contrasting with her blue top., a man makes a funny face, sticking out his tongue. he is wearing a black sweater and has curly hair., a quote on a blue background. the text reads, "my partner doesn't fully know the extent of what i offer.", a concert scene with a crowd of people dancing under colorful stage lights. the image captures the energy and atmosphere of a live music performance., a table with playing cards, cookies, and drinks. someone is holding a cookie., a man poses on a city street, wearing a long blue coat. the photo is taken in daylight, with autumn leaves on the ground., a woman interacts with a playful labrador dog lying on its back in a cafe. the dog appears happy and relaxed, enjoying the attention., a scenic view of a city canal with boats and buildings under a bright blue sky. the sun shines brightly, adding a warm glow to the scene., a dimly lit cafe with hanging lights and a vintage clock. the photo captures the ambiance of the space., a close-up shot of a vibrant bouquet of flowers. the bouquet features a mix of blue, yellow, and red flowers, wrapped in brown paper., .
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Ben @beniguess

Trying to make Buttertongue happen DM me queer things to write about, I like a challenge ;)
Seville, ES
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Quick Q for the room We are unplugging for sex, right? I’m hearing people are on their phones during the deed 👀
A man and a woman, likely a couple or family members, pose for a selfie with their tongues sticking out. The man is in the foreground, with the woman slightly behind him.
A travel itinerary card displays 'Nîmes' with a French flag, indicating a 6-day visit from May 29th to June 3rd, with an airplane icon signifying travel.
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A person takes a mirror selfie in a hallway, wearing a denim shirt, brown jacket, and dark jeans.
Dating apps are converting to the latest religion of AI, integrating the all-powerful god into their services. On a good day, AI hands us the tools to polish ourselves over and inflate ourselves with interests, knowledge and language that are not entirely our own. AI is making blow-up sex dolls of us all. - A little something from a little something I published recently that I’m quite proud of 🤭
Is anyone using Grindr’s AI EDGE subscription? I am writing about AI in dating apps and I’m DYING to see how it works or IF it actually works 😉
An artistic illustration of a woman with long, wavy red hair, captured mid-yawn with her mouth wide open. The background is a textured orange, contrasting with her blue top.
A little something for a friend’s new place ;)
A man makes a funny face, sticking out his tongue. He is wearing a black sweater and has curly hair.
A quote on a blue background. The text reads, "My partner doesn't fully know the extent of what I offer."
Here’s another lil gay interview, I’ve worked away onnnnn 🤭
A table with playing cards, cookies, and drinks. Someone is holding a cookie.
A man poses on a city street, wearing a long blue coat. The photo is taken in daylight, with autumn leaves on the ground.
A woman interacts with a playful labrador dog lying on its back in a cafe. The dog appears happy and relaxed, enjoying the attention.
A scenic view of a city canal with boats and buildings under a bright blue sky. The sun shines brightly, adding a warm glow to the scene.
A dimly lit cafe with hanging lights and a vintage clock. The photo captures the ambiance of the space.
funniest Grindr messages? Pls help I’m putting together a collection of messages for a magazine
Straights really do be coming through romantically these days. Good god.
Photo by beniguess
bittersweet farewells
Photo by beniguess
A man takes a selfie outdoors on a sunny day with a blue sky and clouds above. He is winking at the camera.
Okie… no one told me how fast you go through sightseeing when you’re solo travelling…
A man with reddish-brown hair poses for a selfie outdoors, resting his chin on his hand. He is wearing a striped polo shirt and several rings and a bracelet.
Pls pls pls if you see me through Europe the next two months, say hi I’m about to only have conversations with myself on solo travel
Three people enjoy a sunny day picnic in a park, with food spread out on a blanket under the trees.
An iced coffee, a pair of light purple headphones, and an e-reader displaying the cover of 'Bath Haus' are arranged on a marble-patterned table.
A digital itinerary card shows "Berlin" with the German flag, "Visiting for 4 days", and flight dates from March 4th to March 7th.
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Okie little gay people in my phone 🫵👁️👁️ Is it embarrassing to have a monogamous relationship? Or is it a badge of honour? I’m writing a cheeky opinion piece and I wanna know what we think ;)
Text overlay on an image of a library. The text reads "What I wish everyone knew about sex."
heyo, we are opening submissions for Buttertongue my lil passion project 🤭 If you have a story about a time you learnt something about sex we’d love to publish them! Send any q’s my way
Here’s a little interview that I’ve been working on. Please please let me know your thoughts 🤭
know anyone hiring for some semblance of a creative job in Amsterdam? I don’t have my usual network here and I really need some help 😅
do anything fun while douching to fill the time? like something to make it more enjoyable - watch something, play music
gay book club in Amsterdam? does anyone know one or wanna start one? 🫣
A man takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. He has dark, curly hair and is wearing a dark t-shirt.
gay book reccs? I wanna know your favourites plsss
A man takes a mirror selfie. He is wearing a blue shirt and has curly dark hair.
Photo by beniguess
Photo by beniguess
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