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Thom @coachthom

Beardo with blue eyes out here being an authentic as possible. I live in Portland, and would rather be hiking or camping. Coffee and a stroll?

Might be the last of the naked beach for me this year.

Fresh flowers over breakfast 💐

My garden helper gives sniffs

Dad’s Gonna Dance

I haven’t seen Above & Beyond since 2023. Tonight, I remedy that situation.

I’m working on some writing.

Goddamn right I bought it.

Slinking around SE Portland

Choosing to bring joy into this day

Pretty sure it’s a crush that’s going somewhere. Unsure. Nervous. Optimistic 💖

They may be showing off my smile lines more and more, but these eyes are my favorite part of me 💙🩵

It’s Spider Season in the PNW

Low-energy trance music and gardening are a beautiful Sunday mashup

It’s Dad Season 🩶💚

80s hair bands, top down, summer warmth. Make it sweet because it never lasts long enough.

Refreshed & Ready

I asked him how to say “butterfly” in Spanish. He gave me “Mariposa” I have a gorgeous word for the feeling of this burgeoning connection. 💓

🏡💨 (starts humming “Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman)

Cute date @ Skidmore Bluffs Portland, Oregon

The strength is returning and it’s a deeply satisfying feeling 🩵🩵

Lifty Shimmy 🕺🪩💪🏻

I don’t have kids because taking care of my inner child is already enough parenting for one human. I’m only *just* learning how to be a good Dad for me. I’m guessing this resonates with some of you too?

Make your own booch 🫐

Up and ready for a morning with my clients

Summer days spent naked by the river are 💯

My old man is still derpy.

Coach has a gym he can train his clients at now, and this is a massive opportunity for me, and the work I do. Let’s get to it, shall we? 💚💪🏻

Today is gonna be a good day.

Did you get a Monday nap in? 10/10 highly recommend

You know shit is dumb over on the other social-photo site when IML 2025 gets his account banned. Thank you @cal and the team at Collective for making this space online for us. 🏳️‍🌈✊🏻✨💖

Good morning Momma

Happy PDX Pride 🏳️‍🌈

As I’ve resumed my life in this town, the results of all the work I did on myself in the desert are becoming clearer and clearer. Every single day has presented me with an abundance of joy, peace, and serenity. — Do the Work. Every day.

Rooster Rock SP is such a respite

Summer Sweeties

On my way to a client sesh in full-Coach mode

It’s been a solid month since I’ve had a proper lift and while I miss it, I’m also rather impressed with myself.