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Thom @coachthom
Bringing Coach and Dad energy with intention. Lean in. I gotchu.
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This may not be the social media app for me and that’s ok. 💙💪
I have an ask from the community here. Have a read at the link below, and let me know your thoughts. I know we struggle with connection, and along with that, our sense of self, and place in the wider community. I know I have a role to play. https://spark.fit/future
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Rustic, simple, joyful baking. Happiness is this.
If you meet a guy who has a colorful sexual past, it’s important you’re able to emotionally separate out his past from the present-day, with you. There’s a reason he’s chosen to meet you, here and now. Lean into that. Stay present.
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Just in case you’re headed into the holidays feeling that familiar UGH (Me too) I’m here, happy to chat, in a safe, cozy, supportive space. Booking a consult is typically all about your wellness and path ahead. They’re also an hour to talk, be seen, & heard. I gotchu, 🌈Fam
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Anxiety Therapy
6’3-6’5 is my ideal Hug Height. I don’t make these rules. Science has proven this to be the truth in my life.
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I love this old man 💛🐾
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Mount Hood, Oregon
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Adding in Fuel + Adding in Intesity
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Arrived at the “midday rest” portion of the day.
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Showed up. It counts.
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Timberline Lodge Mt Jefferson in the distance. My #NoKings protest was to celebrate the natural beauty in America, at a place and monument to American craftsmanship, and what’s possible when we actually invest in our public lands - and American people.
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The best weight on the bar.
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Dreaming of sharing my knowledge and skills without needing to monetize them because my wider society takes care of my basic human needs. I hate capitalism so much.
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Show up with your authentic self, everywhere you are.
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I took myself to the river, collected some glacial waters, and a few small branches from the forest floor. There’s magic, I feel it, and am leaning into it a lot these days. Today was a new depth to my solitude.
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We are more than sex parties, nudes, abs, and all the shallow validation hits…if we choose to be. I challenge you, today, to find another aspect of your identity to celebrate and explore and love.
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Coffee & Reading
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Being Peace by Thich Nhat Hanh How to Eat by Thich Nhat Hanh The Way of Zen by Alan Watts — $30 to Powell’s Books in Portland and Saturday afternoon has been solid.
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Intention: Joy-Finding 🦋
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Every time. All of it. No skips.
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I am allowed to take up space. I am allowed to have a size. I can stop chasing thin and actively disappearing myself.
Monday LIFT!
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✨💪
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🐾💗
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Journaling this morning was a recollection of all the ways I sacrificed my body and its autonomy, in the hopes of being accepted into our community. That time of my life is over.
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Coach’s got your back
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Sipping coffee, reading about limerence and anxious attachment style, and doing all the self-love and self-caregiving things today. I do not need to fit into someone else’s puzzle in order to be valid and worthy of being loved.
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One Year #sober
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My old dog is such a beautiful weirdo
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I am offering free hour-long video chats to anyone in America who is struggling to stretch their food budget. I’m a nutrition professional who’s deeply aware of food access anxiety. FMI, check out the attached link. Share this with anyone you know who may need help.
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Don’t forget to breathe.
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Doing a bit extra around the house makes this place feel even more like my home.
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Shifted some language over on my coaching site and am beginning to re-imagine my place in the 🌈Fam. Coach, Mentor, and Guide. Sample at: http://spark.fit/egotaming
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Mt Hood

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