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Thom @coachthom

Beardo with blue eyes out here being an authentic as possible. I live in Portland, and would rather be hiking or camping. Coffee and a stroll?

Unplug. Go outside. Breathe. I gotchu.

BYOB Be Your Own Boyfriend (Esp on days when you would like some love and support)

Big Bear Gym Hugz

100% PDX-Pilled

Dad-Bod 🖤🩶🤍

It’s ok to simply exist and not be productive or profit-making every second of everyday.

Ready for Fall 🍂🍁🎃

Cucumber, lime juice, fresh mint, salt & pepper. Yummy AF 🥒🍋‍🟩🌞

My garden helper

As a sober fella, the variety of ways for party hosts to be inclusive of their sober friends really has improved as of late. And I am *here* for it.

Could use a cuddle tonight.

This one has really made Summer 2025 super special. I can’t wait to see what we get up to over Autumn. Find friends who love shenanigans and help push you out of your comfort zone on occasion. 😊🩶🩵

Need a Tug?⚓️

Ever sit and question your life choices with “Was I just horny?”

Stay Queer As Fuck (Via Lockwood51)

Now accepting applications for Boys & Sons who can wield a razor for my bald head.

I am the guardian of my inner boy, teen, 20-, and 30-something, and I have never felt more complete, more worthy, or more empowered in my life. And, if I may, I feel pretty damn cute too, as I approach damn near 50 years old (I’ll be 48 this year). It leaves me speechless.

Keith Haring USPS Forever Stamps, 2025

Keeping a promise to myself feels so damn good 💪🏻✨

Are you cruising me, or glaring at me for existing? (At the gym)

Endorphins: FOUND

Garden Supervisors

Make the kinds of friendships that have everyone guessing if you’re taken or not. And never feel pressed to answer their inquiries.

Sauvie Island Monday

Might be the last of the naked beach for me this year.

Fresh flowers over breakfast 💐

My garden helper gives sniffs

Dad’s Gonna Dance

I haven’t seen Above & Beyond since 2023. Tonight, I remedy that situation.

I’m working on some writing.

Goddamn right I bought it.

Slinking around SE Portland

Choosing to bring joy into this day

Pretty sure it’s a crush that’s going somewhere. Unsure. Nervous. Optimistic 💖

They may be showing off my smile lines more and more, but these eyes are my favorite part of me 💙🩵