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Ethan Raysor (@ethanraysor) - Collective Profile | New York, US Actor. Happily married to my best friend 👨🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻👬🏻 Actor, Singer, and Dancer with Actor’s Equity Association Big into all kinds of art (and socialism) Follow @hausofray on Instagram. Recent posts: a close-up shot of a cluster of blue hydrangeas with green leaves surrounding them. the flowers are in full bloom, with some petals showing hints of white and yellow., a young woman in a pink dress is captured mid-air, upside down on a swing against a clear blue sky. the image has a vintage aesthetic, evoking a sense of playful nostalgia., a person's arm and leg are visible in the foreground as they walk two dogs on leashes through a grassy field., a person with curly brown hair and sunglasses holds a small bouquet of wildflowers in a field of green under a cloudy sky. the person is wearing a black tank top with colorful graphics and has tattoos on their arms., a hand holds a small painting with a blue floral design and handwritten text in the center. the artwork features delicate blue brushstrokes on a white background, creating a botanical pattern., a small bouquet of wildflowers and grasses sits in a clear glass vase on a wooden window sill. to the right, a glass jar holds a small plant, and the window behind shows a blurred view of green trees., a woman with curly brown hair poses for a selfie in a studio setting. she is wearing a patterned top and making a playful face, while a camera and lighting equipment are visible in the background., a woman with curly brown hair and yellow-tinted sunglasses poses for a selfie outdoors. she is wearing an orange tank top and a simple necklace., a close-up shot of a bibimbap dish served in a black stone bowl, topped with a fried egg and garnished with sauce. a cocktail and a bottle of water sit on the wooden table, with chopsticks resting on the bowl., a man stands in a room wearing a denim jacket over a grey polo shirt and dark wash jeans. he is also wearing white sneakers and has his hands in his pockets., a person with tattoos stands wearing a black sweater tank top and blue boxer briefs. the person has curly brown hair and is looking at the camera., a close-up shot of a poinsettia plant shows its vibrant red leaves and a small, budding flower in the center. the caption explains that the colorful leaves evolved to attract specific pollinators., a black dog with white markings on its chest and muzzle rests on a brown armchair. the dog wears a pink collar adorned with white pearls and looks directly at the camera with a slightly tilted head., a close-up shot of a goutweed plant with clusters of tiny white flowers and variegated green leaves., a close-up shot of a slice of banana bread on a plate., .
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Ethan Raysor @ethanraysor

Happily married to my best friend 👨🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻👬🏻 Actor, Singer, and Dancer with Actor’s Equity Association Big into all kinds of art (and socialism)
New York, US
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A close-up shot of a cluster of blue hydrangeas with green leaves surrounding them. The flowers are in full bloom, with some petals showing hints of white and yellow.
Blue hydrangeas, cold cash divine 🎶
A young woman in a pink dress is captured mid-air, upside down on a swing against a clear blue sky. The image has a vintage aesthetic, evoking a sense of playful nostalgia.
I’m not crying, you’re crying 😭
A person with curly brown hair and sunglasses holds a small bouquet of wildflowers in a field of green under a cloudy sky. The person is wearing a black tank top with colorful graphics and has tattoos on their arms.
I let my pain go and in its place grew wildflowers, the first signs of life on disturbed earth
A hand holds a small painting with a blue floral design and handwritten text in the center. The artwork features delicate blue brushstrokes on a white background, creating a botanical pattern.
Bonus points if you know the inspiration for this piece (not the Chappell Roan reference tho)
A small bouquet of wildflowers and grasses sits in a clear glass vase on a wooden window sill. To the right, a glass jar holds a small plant, and the window behind shows a blurred view of green trees.
It’s the little things in life that make life worth living
Imagine hiding behind a private comment AND a keyboard… girl that’s pathetic.
So I’m over all of social media at this point. I’m tired of defending my thoughts and actions just so people can make a smart ass comment and make me do it all over again. ✌🏻
A woman with curly brown hair poses for a selfie in a studio setting. She is wearing a patterned top and making a playful face, while a camera and lighting equipment are visible in the background.
But at least I looked cute during the shoot… after HMUA had to pat me down and blast the AC on me lmao
Of course the day I have to bring a huge suitcase with clothes for a fashion shoot for the agency is the same day it feels over 100 F in NYC
A close-up shot of a bibimbap dish served in a black stone bowl, topped with a fried egg and garnished with sauce. A cocktail and a bottle of water sit on the wooden table, with chopsticks resting on the bowl.
Lowkey one of my favorite dates besides my husband 🤭🥰😜
A man stands in a room wearing a denim jacket over a grey polo shirt and dark wash jeans. He is also wearing white sneakers and has his hands in his pockets.
There’s also something wonderfully c*nty about this fit even though it is so simple
A person with tattoos stands wearing a black sweater tank top and blue boxer briefs. The person has curly brown hair and is looking at the camera.
Tried to get her to like my c*nty sweater tank but she said no to that one 😅
A close-up shot of a poinsettia plant shows its vibrant red leaves and a small, budding flower in the center. The caption explains that the colorful leaves evolved to attract specific pollinators.
If you ever wondered what a poinsettia flower ACTUALLY looked like, this is it! Fun fact, the colorful leaves (red/pink/white/cream) evolved to have certain pigments based on the specific pollinators that those color hues evolved with! The pure white poinsettia is *likely* an ultraviolet purple hue
So the first person i met from Collective irl who was “friends only” not only would make comments that made me and my husband uncomfortable, but also constantly contacted me in any way he could to try to get me to hang out with him by myself. He even tried to have me sleep over in his one bed studio apartment, alone with him, despite me consistently turning it down and making it clear I’d rather sit on a train for an hour and a half and drive home half an hour to sleep at home, with my husband. He also consistently lied to other people we introduced him to, aka our FRIENDS, as to where he met me. Instead of admitting to being a Collective user, he told people we matched on BUMBLE “For Friends.” I’ve never even had a Bumble account b/c when I was single, they didn’t allow for same-sex matches. I didn’t know BFF existed, and he was actively telling my friends this was how we connected. Yes, he is a closeted bisexual, and though my husband, our other LGBTQ + ally friends, and I embraced this, we all started getting weird vibes directed at me. Today I told him how we all felt, he gaslit me and blocked me + my husband on IG. I clapped back and snatched his toupee, virtually.
A black dog with white markings on its chest and muzzle rests on a brown armchair. The dog wears a pink collar adorned with white pearls and looks directly at the camera with a slightly tilted head.
The most precious girl to ever precious girl
Okay y’all, BePresent is cute but it’s starting to piss me off because I haven’t opened the IG for 24hrs+ and it’s asking if I want to “give up” and mama didn’t raise no bitch
A close-up shot of a goutweed plant with clusters of tiny white flowers and variegated green leaves.
Who knew something named “goutweed” could be so pretty? Aegopodium podagraria ✨
BUT BANANA BREAD AT WORK YO? HELL. YEAH.
A man lies down with his dog, Artemis, resting her head on his chest. The dog looks directly at the camera with a gentle expression, while the man's eyes are closed.
Artemis is smiling at you and you should smile back
A man with curly brown hair and a blue bandana around his neck poses for a selfie. He is wearing a white tank top, a brown vest, and denim shorts, with a theatrical costume in mind.
Obsessed with my costume for ‘The Twits’ by Enda Walsh, as I am playing “Handsome Waltzer Boy” for the FIRST TIME in the United States! Come see me in the Bronx at An Béal Bocht on Sunday, 2pm
So i’m patient, you’re learning, pretend it’s not hurting, Oh whoa… They say it’s a virtue to not let good love slip away, So i’m cool and forgiving, i’ll take what you’re giving Oh whoa… But nothing’s quite enough when i know that to get it I begged
A first-person view of someone walking three dogs on a grassy path through a field on a cloudy day. The dogs are a white pit bull mix, a black dog, and a tan and white dog, all on leashes.
A hand holds a small, colorful illustration of flowers in rainbow colors. The text "the future is female" is written in the center of the illustration.
Iykyk
Inspired by @collective to put this out there. I would love to trade and collab on making music with people on Collective, so if you know how to use a DAW and produce/play instruments, I have songwriting abilities and ideas that need help getting a pen to paper with music behind it. I can play basic piano chords but need someone with more experience who wants to make music together. Inspos for writing and sound quality: jazz and alternative pop, folk, singer-songwriter, concept, RAYE, Adele, Amy Winehouse, Lana Del Rey, Joni Mitchell, Taylor Swift, Ariana Grande, Melanie Martinez, Zara Larsson, Mariah Carey, Jordy, David Bowie, Stevie Nicks, Fleetwood Mac, Zee Machine, David Archuleta, Kelly Clarkson, Avril Lavigne, Pink, Kate Bush
A man with curly hair and sunglasses holds a small bouquet of wildflowers. He is wearing a black tank top with a colorful graphic and has tattoos on his arm.
Picked a little collection of wildflowers on the hike I took the dogs on this afternoon 💐🌾✨
A screenshot of a social media comment section where a user named 'fernando' makes a comment about normalizing anorexic bodies for girls, and the original poster 'ethanraysor' replies with 'thanks for that.'
Super cute private comment section, dontcha think? @fernando if you’re going to say something say it with your full chest, but girl, don’t be weak sauce 🥴
I am so so so tired of seeing people talk about Ari’s body, concern or not, on IG right now. It’s disgusting how people are justifying their parasocial relationship and behavior (aka no longer supporting her work) because of an ED she manages on her own. WOMEN’S BODIES ARE NOT UP FOR DEBATE OR CONVERSATION— thank u, next
And of course I did a full body day at the gym yesterday, which means with every step my quads do an extra little jiggle before flexing with soreness 😅🦵🏻🏋🏻‍♂️
Also when the brand you were hired to do the brand activation for (at the Knicks game nonetheless) uses you for their official IG campaign 🤭🤯😱🤭
Stencil art on a sidewalk reads "PROTECT YO HEART" above the New York Knicks logo and "UNCUT" upside down. The feet of several people are visible around the artwork.
This is by far one of my favorite amalgamations that I put together based on the pieces she chose
A young man with curly brown hair and tattoos on his arm poses shirtless in ripped blue jeans in a room with a white sheet backdrop. He is standing on a rug in front of a chair and a grandfather clock.
When your manager asks for clothes options for a shoot tomorrow and that means you get up at 9am and start photographing yourself 🤭
A mural on a dark brick wall features large, stylized golden angel wings on the left and smaller ones on the right. Red devil horns are visible above the smaller wings, and a champagne glass with bubbles floats near the larger wing.
Though I didn’t approve of this image of my likeness, I was flattered to see it anyway 😌🥂😈🪽
The 💩 i decide to do at 1:30am needs to be studied i stg
Three friends stand with their arms around each other at a bar, celebrating a birthday. The person in the middle, whose birthday it is, wears a baseball cap and a green sweatshirt.
One of my favorite people turned another year older (she’s in the middle)
So i was playing with chord progressions for a song I am writing and my electronic piano just started hissing at me with static unprompted
i can’t tell u why but something inside is dancing with fire 🔥
I downloaded BePresent to break my chronic IG addiction habits, and when it asked if I wanted to include Collective I said HELL. NAW.
And this is my art
A man with curly hair and sunglasses is inside a car, with his arm raised and a tattoo visible on his bicep.
It’s ✨f e m i n i n e intuition✨
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