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Ben @nebjamin

Wordsmith, traveler, nerd, swimmer, husband, dog dad, gardener, tall
Madison, US
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A contemporary art installation features large, colorful fabric sculptures suspended from the ceiling in a museum gallery. The pieces display abstract painted patterns in vibrant hues of pink, blue, yellow, and purple, with some areas appearing to be
Sam Gilliam, one of the most important Black American painters you’ve probably never heard of, at MMoCA in Madison, Wisconsin.
The iconic Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco is captured from a scenic viewpoint overlooking the ocean. A large tree stands in the foreground, with lush greenery and hills in the background under a clear blue sky.
A man with a beard takes a selfie on a balcony with a view of the San Francisco Ferry Building and the Bay Bridge under a cloudy sky.
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A shirtless man with a beard smiles at the camera while holding a bouquet of vibrant pink zinnias in a garden setting.
A man takes a selfie in a gym, wearing a dark short-sleeved shirt and white shorts. He has a beard and is wearing a watch on his left wrist.
My natural habitat 🧜🏼‍♂️
A close-up shot shows a woven basket filled with a variety of fresh tomatoes. The basket is overflowing with bright red cherry tomatoes, smaller yellow cherry tomatoes, and several larger, elongated red Roma tomatoes.
Harvest 🍅
A man with a beard takes a selfie in a modern art museum. The walls are adorned with colorful abstract paintings, and black floor cushions are scattered throughout the space.
I wish the pump could last forever 💪🏼
A black and white portrait of country music icon Dolly Parton smiling with her hands framing her face. Her signature voluminous blonde hair and sparkling jewelry are prominent.
Miss you already, Dolly.
Empire of the Sun in Milwaukee ☀️
A man takes a selfie in a gym, wearing a t-shirt and shorts, with weights and gym equipment in the background.
A man stands in a brightly lit, modern architectural space with a distinctive curved ceiling and geometric patterns. Sunlight streams through the windows, casting long shadows across the marble floor.
A man in grey briefs takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. He has a beard and a hairy chest.
A man in yellow swimwear takes a mirror selfie in a backyard on a sunny day. He is wearing sunglasses and his reflection shows a lush green garden behind him.
A man with a beard takes a selfie in a gym, wearing a t-shirt and shorts. He is standing near a rack of dumbbells and a weight bench.
A daytime, high-angle shot of the San Francisco Ferry Building with the Bay Bridge and Alcatraz Island in the background. Palm trees line the street in front of the building.
A man with a beard and stubble takes a selfie in a gym, wearing a t-shirt and shorts. He is holding a phone and wearing earbuds.
Sunday
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Golden yellow leaves fill the frame, illuminated by the sun against a clear blue sky. The branches of a large tree create a dramatic silhouette, with hints of other trees and a street visible in the background.
Beeple exhibition at the Madison Museum of Contemporary Art
Love the pattern in my solve today. Wordle 1,916 3/6* ⬜🟨🟩🟨⬜ 🟩⬜🟩⬜🟩 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩
A man in blue and white striped swimwear stands on the deck of a boat, smiling at the camera. The ocean and a cloudy blue sky are visible in the background.
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A man with a beard smiles at the camera in a selfie taken outdoors during the day. He is wearing a pink t-shirt with a Speedo logo. The background shows a driveway lined with trees and sunlight filtering through the leaves.
Hometown mornings
A shirtless, muscular man takes a selfie in a reflection on a glass door, with three Great Danes in the foreground in a garden.
A dramatic sunset paints the sky with vibrant orange and yellow hues, illuminating the clouds against a darkening blue backdrop. Silhouetted trees and buildings are visible at the bottom, grounding the celestial display.
A man with a beard smiles at the camera while holding a bowl of freshly picked apples in a garden.
An apple a day!
A close-up shot showcases a vibrant assortment of heirloom tomatoes, featuring a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors including red, yellow, and green.
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A close-up shot of a bouquet of flowers, featuring large white and pink chrysanthemums with smaller pink flowers in the background.
A close-up shot of a vibrant pink water lily blooming in a pond, surrounded by lush green lily pads.
In our garden
A view from inside a wooden sauna looking out at a river. A wood-burning stove with hot coals is visible in the center, flanked by wooden benches.
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A man takes a selfie in a gym, wearing a t-shirt and shorts. He is standing near weightlifting equipment.
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