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Ojay (@ojay) - Collective Profile | London, GB Curious engaged lover of books, cocktails great food stimulating & witty conversation, ideas, art, opera,theatre. 55 dipping toe in here Recent posts: a group of performers are on a stage in front of an audience. the performers are mostly nude and some are holding yellow objects. the stage is decorated with frames and has bright lighting., a sun-dappled garden path leads to a manicured lawn dotted with tables and chairs under umbrellas. lush trees and manicured hedges frame the serene outdoor seating area., a man with a bald head and glasses smiles widely at the camera. he is wearing a grey blazer over a striped shirt. behind him, a grand white building with many windows and trees line a street., a man wearing sunglasses and a floral shirt poses for a photo. the text on the image reads "abiriba enachoken ofo gwu emesofo de daz man"., a striking movie poster features angelina jolie as maria, depicted in a dramatic, elegant pose against a neutral background. the poster advertises the original motion picture soundtrack for the film 'maria'., a close-up shot of a negroni cocktail in a rocks glass, garnished with an orange peel and filled with ice. the drink is a deep amber color, and the background is blurred, suggesting a bar setting., a man stands on the steps of the metropolitan museum of art in new york city, wearing a white shirt and a blue and white patterned wrap skirt. a red banner above the entrance reads "the met"., a man with a bald head and a beard holds a beer bottle at an event. he is wearing a black polo shirt with an africa map graphic on it., a man with glasses and a blazer reads a book titled "small by small" at the north cornwall book festival., text overlay on a white background reads "reverse mentor to guide newbie older on collective needed. apply within.", a stack of books sits on a glass coffee table in front of a desk and chair in what appears to be a hotel room. one book, "the comfort of distant stars," is open, with a pen resting on its pages. a miniature painting on an easel is also visible., a view of the jasper suite at ockenden manor in sussex shows a modern building with an outdoor terrace and lounge chairs. the sunset casts a warm glow on the windows, and lush greenery surrounds the area., an album cover features a close-up portrait of a woman with "lasso of truth" written across her face in various fonts and colors. her curly, dark hair frames her face, and she has bold makeup on her lips and eyes., album cover featuring a woman holding a clarinet, with text overlay listing composers, musicians, and orchestra., two men in traditional african attire are posing for a photo. the man on the left wears a white shirt with a blue sash and patterned pants, while the man on the right wears a blue patterned shirt and matching pants. they appear to be at a celebration, .
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Ojay @ojay

Curious engaged lover of books, cocktails great food stimulating & witty conversation, ideas, art, opera,theatre. 55 dipping toe in here
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Derrière on a G String. Now showing at the King’s Head Theatre London N1
A sun-dappled garden path leads to a manicured lawn dotted with tables and chairs under umbrellas. Lush trees and manicured hedges frame the serene outdoor seating area.
Garden path Ockenden Manor Cuckfield Sussex
A man with a bald head and glasses smiles widely at the camera. He is wearing a grey blazer over a striped shirt. Behind him, a grand white building with many windows and trees line a street.
after meeting in regent’s park
A man wearing sunglasses and a floral shirt poses for a photo. The text on the image reads "Abiriba Enachoken Ofo gwu emesofo DE DAZ MAN".
Back home vibes, proud Abiriba man
A striking movie poster features Angelina Jolie as Maria, depicted in a dramatic, elegant pose against a neutral background. The poster advertises the original motion picture soundtrack for the film 'Maria'.
Special
A close-up shot of a Negroni cocktail in a rocks glass, garnished with an orange peel and filled with ice. The drink is a deep amber color, and the background is blurred, suggesting a bar setting.
A Negroni for me please, any time
A man with a bald head and a beard holds a beer bottle at an event. He is wearing a black polo shirt with an Africa map graphic on it.
A man with glasses and a blazer reads a book titled "Small by Small" at the North Cornwall Book Festival.
Text overlay on a white background reads "Reverse mentor to guide newbie older on Collective needed. Apply within."
A stack of books sits on a glass coffee table in front of a desk and chair in what appears to be a hotel room. One book, "The Comfort of Distant Stars," is open, with a pen resting on its pages. A miniature painting on an easel is also visible.
Brilliant read. Physics. Igbo gods. Thoughtprovoking. Entertaining. “A Beautiful Mind meets Things Fall Apart” Shortlisted for Orwell Prize
A view of the Jasper Suite at Ockenden Manor in Sussex shows a modern building with an outdoor terrace and lounge chairs. The sunset casts a warm glow on the windows, and lush greenery surrounds the area.
View of Jasper Suite at Ockenden Manor in Sussex. Fab weekend
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PoV: You realise you’re ancient when youngers express nostalgia about your youthful days and bathe it all in a warm rose tinted glow
An album cover features a close-up portrait of a woman with "Lasso of Truth" written across her face in various fonts and colors. Her curly, dark hair frames her face, and she has bold makeup on her lips and eyes.
Dancing time…
Album cover featuring a woman holding a clarinet, with text overlay listing composers, musicians, and orchestra.
One of the most beautiful pieces of music I’ve ever heard
With my bestie, giving his mum a proper Abiriba send off in NC March 2025
A man with a bald head and a beard speaks into a microphone at a conference. He is wearing a purple patterned shirt and a green lanyard.
Three books titled "Small by Small" by Ike Anya are displayed on a dark, marbled surface. The books feature medical imagery like stethoscopes and depict a doctor on one cover.
A man with a bald head and stubble is wearing sunglasses and a dark blue collared shirt. He is looking forward, possibly while driving, with a seatbelt visible.
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