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Randy Spire @randyspire
Just a generally low-key, jeans and T guy who is seeking to recapture a greater sense of wonderment and joy. Hopefully with like-minded others. 😌✌🏻😄
Chicago, US
music
travel
movies
art
fitness
architecture
exercise
board games
outdoors
curiosity
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Everyday me. Especially on the weekends. I don’t throw “good for camera” outfits or thirst traps. I love my hella old T’s, sweats, and the like. I also don’t make my bed on the regular. 😌
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Catching the morning…light? 😏😉
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Me.
I often wonder how many guys that include “looking for friends” actually define that platonically? In my experience, pretty much every guy I’ve ever met who shared a friendship interest was very obviously looking and/or hoping for something else. To offer context, I’m both open and straightforward, so there’s little room for confusion about my initial expectations. I’m sharing these thoughts b/c I’m curious about your take and experience? Also b/c I like to think this new app (joined today) diverges from my previous experience.
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🤓😆
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Halloween 2025 #3
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Halloween 2025 #2
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Cholla Cactus Garden, Joshua Tree
“People think intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is ‘you’re safe with me’ – that’s intimacy.”
Is there some (seemingly unobvious) way to correct or delete a text post on my page? Or any post, for that matter? Thx. 🙃😉 [I missed a word on my previous post and would like to add it!]
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Yes.
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🤔😜
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Halloween 2025 #3
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Halloween 2025 #2
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There WILL be a lot of t-shirt photos.
This app reads like gay instagram. Seems like “how many followers and/or likes can I get,” versus who can I connect and communicate with in a meaningful way.
Exploring and appreciating another man’s through touch is an end in itself.
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11/2025. Looking up.
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🫣🤣🤣
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Yes, I mostly avoid the sun or spf 1000 when I hit it. 😎
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Halloween 2025 #2
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Halloween 2025 #1

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