Feeling very disturbed by what has happened in New Zealand. The fuckery is 90% of those males wearing “man up” on their chests are logging onto Grindr at 3am looking for a love affair. I hate/love that our community is largely non-violent.

Does anyone fully believe in their straight/cis friends when they say that they’re “allies”/accepting? Or does this veil also feel like it’s sadly lifting?