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Alexandros (@xandermar) - Collective Profile | Athens, GR CEO at LLC. Theater nerd & yoga devotee. Mastering the art of the flow, dry humor, and enough sarcasm to make you roll your eyes. Namaste, or whatever. Recent posts: a man and a woman pose for a selfie in front of the louvre museum's glass pyramid in paris. both are wearing sunglasses, and the man is bald while the woman has long, dark hair., a sun sets behind a distant archway, casting a warm glow over a tree-lined road. the road appears wet, reflecting the golden light of the setting sun., a bald man wearing a kilt walks up a set of stairs next to a street in paris, france., a bald man walks down a tree-lined path in a park on a sunny day. the path is made of dirt and lined with tall, green trees on either side, leading towards a bright blue sky., a group of friends takes a selfie in a shop window in paris. the reflection shows three people in the foreground, with two men and one woman. in the background, two more people are visible walking down the street., a couple stands on either side of a stone archway in paris, france, pointing towards each other. the architecture features ornate carvings and hanging lanterns., a wide river flows through a european city, with bridges spanning its width and historic buildings lining the banks under a bright, partly cloudy sky., a group of people hold a large rainbow flag during a pride parade in athens. the sun is setting, casting a warm glow on the city buildings in the background., a vibrant pride parade fills a city street, with a large crowd of people gathered around a decorated float adorned with balloons. the atmosphere appears festive and celebratory under a clear sky., the eiffel tower is illuminated at night, with its intricate iron lattice structure and golden lights visible against the dark blue sky., the arc de triomphe in paris stands tall against a soft yellow sunset sky. the iconic monument is framed by a vast cobblestone plaza, with a few people visible in the distance., a bald man wearing a white t-shirt and pink pants stands on a bridge overlooking the seine river in paris, france. he has a denim jacket tied around his waist and is checking his watch., a poster for athens pride 2026 features a collage of many individual portraits of people against a white background. the text at the top reads 'athens pride 2026' in rainbow colors. below this, event details like date, location, and time are listed i, a man in athletic wear stands on a tennis court holding a racket. the image is taken from a low angle, looking up at the man against a backdrop of the sky and trees., a graphic displays "paris" with a french flag, "visiting for 6 days", and the dates "may 21" and "may 26" with an airplane icon., .
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Alexandros @xandermar

Theater nerd & yoga devotee. Mastering the art of the flow, dry humor, and enough sarcasm to make you roll your eyes. Namaste, or whatever.
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A man and a woman pose for a selfie in front of the Louvre Museum's glass pyramid in Paris. Both are wearing sunglasses, and the man is bald while the woman has long, dark hair.
Two masterpieces, one Louvre 🇫🇷
A sun sets behind a distant archway, casting a warm glow over a tree-lined road. The road appears wet, reflecting the golden light of the setting sun.
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A bald man wearing a kilt walks up a set of stairs next to a street in Paris, France.
🚶‍♂️🇫🇷
A bald man walks down a tree-lined path in a park on a sunny day. The path is made of dirt and lined with tall, green trees on either side, leading towards a bright blue sky.
🌳🇫🇷
A group of friends takes a selfie in a shop window in Paris. The reflection shows three people in the foreground, with two men and one woman. In the background, two more people are visible walking down the street.
📸🇫🇷
A couple stands on either side of a stone archway in Paris, France, pointing towards each other. The architecture features ornate carvings and hanging lanterns.
👈🏻🇫🇷
A wide river flows through a European city, with bridges spanning its width and historic buildings lining the banks under a bright, partly cloudy sky.
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Athens Pride 2026 | 🏳️‍🌈
Athens Pride 2026 | 🏳️‍🌈
The Eiffel Tower is illuminated at night, with its intricate iron lattice structure and golden lights visible against the dark blue sky.
Eiffel Tower 🇫🇷
The Arc de Triomphe in Paris stands tall against a soft yellow sunset sky. The iconic monument is framed by a vast cobblestone plaza, with a few people visible in the distance.
Arc De Triomphe 🇫🇷
A bald man wearing a white t-shirt and pink pants stands on a bridge overlooking the Seine River in Paris, France. He has a denim jacket tied around his waist and is checking his watch.
Seine, Paris, France 🇫🇷
A poster for Athens Pride 2026 features a collage of many individual portraits of people against a white background. The text at the top reads 'ATHENS PRIDE 2026' in rainbow colors. Below this, event details like date, location, and time are listed i
🏳️‍🌈 Celebrate Athens Pride! Join the vibrant Athens Pride parade this Saturday, June 13, 2026. The festivities center at Syntagma Square, with the parade kicking off at 19:00. Enjoy live concerts, drag performances, and DJs in the heart of the city. Getting There: Take the Metro (Lines 2 or 3) directly to Syntagma Station. Expect large crowds and road closures in the center. Wear comfy shoes, stay hydrated, and enjoy the celebration! Keep an eye on the official for updates.
A man in athletic wear stands on a tennis court holding a racket. The image is taken from a low angle, looking up at the man against a backdrop of the sky and trees.
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Read an article from Bolde which argues that the "strange flatness" many feel in their 40s isn’t burnout; it’s the body’s accurate report on a life built from a long series of safe, "unobjectionable choices." By middle age, life can be objectively functional—good job, stable home—yet feel hollow because "fine" has become a ceiling. We hit the milestones we thought would bring happiness, only to realize we built a life authored by circumstances rather than our own authentic desires. For a gay person, this hits with unique intensity. Those early "sensible" decisions were often survival tactics. To avoid rejection or shield against shame, many overcompensated by playing the "perfect, high-achieving citizen," adopting a traditional, heteronormative template just to blend in. At 40, the flatness arrives when that protective shield becomes a cage. It is the exhaustion of a lifelong performance, and the mourning of a "delayed adolescence" spent hiding instead of exploring. The discomfort isn't a crisis; it is agency knocking on the door. Armed with midlife stability, it’s a signal that it is finally safe to stop making "defensible" choices and start authoring an authentic life. Thoughts?
A graphic displays "Paris" with a French flag, "Visiting for 6 days", and the dates "May 21" and "May 26" with an airplane icon.
Ideas, recommendations, tips and hints: bring them on!
So I noticed I always pace around the house while I’m on the phone… and got me curious as to why people do that… A search online brought these results: 1. The "Visual Void" Compensation 2. Cognitive Boosting 3. Emotional Regulation 4. Gestural Displacement “Fun Fact: This is also why many people find it easier to brainstorm while walking. The physical act of movement literally "unlocks" creative pathways in the brain.” Makes perfect sense to me… can you think of another reason?
A man in a t-shirt and shorts stands on a tennis court, holding a racket and looking towards another man playing tennis in the background. The sky is clear and blue.
Clear skies, yellow fuzz. 🎾 🎾 🎾
A close-up shot of a delicious-looking pizza with a glass of orange aperitif in the foreground. The background is blurred, showing small bowls of food and what appears to be a restaurant setting.
Because I felt like an Italian today 🍕 🍷
A man with a bald head lies in bed, resting his chin on his hand and looking at the camera with a playful expression. He is wearing a watch on his left wrist.
Most favorite vacation activity is seeing how long I can stay in bed. 🛌 😴
A close-up shot showcases a golden-brown, braided tsoureki bread, a sweet Greek Easter bread, generously sprinkled with slivered almonds. The bread is presented on parchment paper, highlighting its rich texture and inviting appearance.
Tsoureki is a sweet, brioche-style Greek bread traditionally baked at Easter. Famous for its stringy texture and braided shape, it features unique Mediterranean flavors of mahlepi and mastic, often decorated with a signature red-dyed egg.
A couple takes a mirror selfie in what appears to be a gym. The man is bald with sunglasses, wearing a black tank top and grey shorts. The woman is wearing a maroon athletic set. Text overlay reads 'I GOT 99 PROBLEMS BUT A BENCH AIN'T ONE'.
🧘🏻‍♂️ @Chez Simone 🇫🇷
A bald man wearing a white t-shirt with the words "PEACE FOR ALL" printed on the back looks out at a sunset in Paris, France. The Arc de Triomphe is visible in the background.
☮️🇫🇷
A couple poses for a mirror selfie in front of a building in Paris. The man is wearing athletic shorts and a t-shirt, while the woman is wearing a matching athletic set.
📸🇫🇷
A man with a bald head and sunglasses smiles over his shoulder while walking on a wooden bridge in Paris. In the background, a large domed building and other tourists are visible under a clear blue sky.
😁🇫🇷
A sun-drenched Parisian street lined with historic buildings and lush greenery. The cobblestone road is dappled with shadows, and several bicycles are parked along the sidewalk.
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A man walks across a crosswalk in front of a grand building with a large red door in Paris, France. The French flag flies above the entrance.
🚶‍♂️🇫🇷
A grand classical building with a prominent dome stands under a clear blue sky. The facade features columns and ornate details, suggesting a historic and important structure.
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Athens Pride 2026 | 🏳️‍🌈
A serene yoga studio with several yoga mats laid out on a wooden floor. Large windows with sheer curtains allow natural light to fill the space, and a unique lamp provides a warm glow.
🧘🏻‍♂️ @Chez Simone 🇫🇷
A charming Parisian cafe, Cafe Saint Honoré, is adorned with abundant pink cherry blossoms and decorative lanterns. A red bicycle is parked outside, and tables and chairs are set up for outdoor seating.
☕️ 🥐 🇫🇷
A bald man wearing a white t-shirt and white pants walks away from the camera towards a grand building with columns. He carries a light-colored backpack and has a jacket tied around his waist.
🚶‍♂️
Three friends pose for a selfie in front of a body of water, likely in Paris, on a sunny day. The person on the left is bald and wearing sunglasses and a white t-shirt. The person in the middle is a woman wearing a black polka dot dress and sunglasse
3…2…1… 📸
All I see is red, oh red 🔴
A man is performing a yoga pose called Sirsa Setu Bandhasana, which involves arching his back and resting his head on the floor. Another person is visible in the background, also engaged in yoga practice.
Sirsa Setu Bandhasana in the making 🧘🏻‍♂️
A man with a bald head and a white t-shirt rests his forehead on his hand, looking directly at the camera with a somber expression.
All is well, can’t complain… but I’m complaining!
A man stands with his arms outstretched in front of a vibrant, patterned wall featuring skulls, butterflies, and flowers. He is wearing a patterned shirt and pants that complement the background.
Frida’s exhibition was visceral—a map of a life lived at full volume. She didn't just paint; she bled onto the canvas, turning trauma into radical resilience. From the bus accident to her defiant Tehuana dress, she lived by her own rules. A haunting, beautiful legacy of grit. Viva la Vida.
A close-up shot of a person wearing a white t-shirt with a graphic print of various fans and the text "ONLY FANS" on it. The person is holding up the shirt to show the design.
Hot day, today but I’ve got Fans 👕 🪭
Vinyasa Yoga 🧘🏻‍♂️
Starting sex therapy this past month has made me realize how much we miss out on growing up. In my country, sex ed is almost non-existent for the queer community. There’s a huge gap in knowledge between staying safe and actually understanding pleasure. Have you ever tried sex therapy and how do you educate yourself on these topics?
A bright, sunny day at a pebble beach on the coast of Greece. The clear turquoise water laps gently at the shore, with mountains visible in the distance under a vibrant blue sky.
Coffee comes with a side of Achaian blue 🇬🇷 ☕️
Greek Orthodox Easter is coming up this Sunday. Heading to the beach house isn't just a tradition at this point; it’s basically a legal obligation!
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