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Alexandros (@xandermar) - Collective Profile | Athens, GR Corporate at Vignette. Theater nerd & yoga devotee. Mastering the art of the flow, dry humor, and enough sarcasm to make you roll your eyes. Namaste, or whatever. Recent posts: a man with pink hair takes a selfie in a car mirror, wearing a pink tank top. the reflection shows his armpit and a hint of his face., a close-up shot of a pebble beach with clear blue water lapping at the shore. distant mountains are visible under a clear blue sky., a close-up, low-angle selfie shows a bald man with stubble in the foreground, looking towards the camera with his mouth open. a woman's face is partially visible to his right., a man and a woman pose for a selfie outdoors at night. the man is bald and wearing a white t-shirt, while the woman has long dark hair with bangs and is wearing a dark top., a man is captured from a low angle performing a yoga pose outdoors. he is on his hands and knees with one leg extended behind him, showcasing his muscular physique against a backdrop of blue sky and clouds., a group of five friends pose for a photo on a sunny day, with a wooden pergola overhead and a clear blue sky in the background. they are dressed in casual summer attire, suggesting a vacation setting., a couple takes a mirror selfie in what appears to be a gym. the man is bald with sunglasses, wearing a black tank top and grey shorts. the woman is wearing a maroon athletic set. text overlay reads 'i got 99 problems but a bench ain't one'., a bald man wearing a white t-shirt with the words "peace for all" printed on the back looks out at a sunset in paris, france. the arc de triomphe is visible in the background., a couple poses for a mirror selfie in front of a building in paris. the man is wearing athletic shorts and a t-shirt, while the woman is wearing a matching athletic set., a man with a bald head and sunglasses smiles over his shoulder while walking on a wooden bridge in paris. in the background, a large domed building and other tourists are visible under a clear blue sky., a sun-drenched parisian street lined with historic buildings and lush greenery. the cobblestone road is dappled with shadows, and several bicycles are parked along the sidewalk., a man walks across a crosswalk in front of a grand building with a large red door in paris, france. the french flag flies above the entrance., a grand classical building with a prominent dome stands under a clear blue sky. the facade features columns and ornate details, suggesting a historic and important structure., a large crowd of people are gathered on a city street for athens pride. a decorative umbrella hangs overhead, and some attendees wear colorful flower crowns., a serene yoga studio with several yoga mats laid out on a wooden floor. large windows with sheer curtains allow natural light to fill the space, and a unique lamp provides a warm glow., .
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Alexandros @xandermar

Theater nerd & yoga devotee. Mastering the art of the flow, dry humor, and enough sarcasm to make you roll your eyes. Namaste, or whatever.
Athens, GR
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A man with pink hair takes a selfie in a car mirror, wearing a pink tank top. The reflection shows his armpit and a hint of his face.
Objects in mirror are closer than they appear. Stains included.
37th of August #sorrynotsorry
Nothing strengthens a friendship quite like a perfectly executed mess. ๐ŸŽค๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿซถ
This friendship was built on trustโ€ฆuntil she hit record ๐Ÿคฃ ๐ŸŽฅ
A man is captured from a low angle performing a yoga pose outdoors. He is on his hands and knees with one leg extended behind him, showcasing his muscular physique against a backdrop of blue sky and clouds.
๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ
A group of five friends pose for a photo on a sunny day, with a wooden pergola overhead and a clear blue sky in the background. They are dressed in casual summer attire, suggesting a vacation setting.
Tinos Retreat ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ท
Photo by xandermar
Yoga Retreat: Tinos ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ท
A couple takes a mirror selfie in what appears to be a gym. The man is bald with sunglasses, wearing a black tank top and grey shorts. The woman is wearing a maroon athletic set. Text overlay reads 'I GOT 99 PROBLEMS BUT A BENCH AIN'T ONE'.
๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ @Chez Simone ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A bald man wearing a white t-shirt with the words "PEACE FOR ALL" printed on the back looks out at a sunset in Paris, France. The Arc de Triomphe is visible in the background.
โ˜ฎ๏ธ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A couple poses for a mirror selfie in front of a building in Paris. The man is wearing athletic shorts and a t-shirt, while the woman is wearing a matching athletic set.
๐Ÿ“ธ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A man with a bald head and sunglasses smiles over his shoulder while walking on a wooden bridge in Paris. In the background, a large domed building and other tourists are visible under a clear blue sky.
๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A sun-drenched Parisian street lined with historic buildings and lush greenery. The cobblestone road is dappled with shadows, and several bicycles are parked along the sidewalk.
๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A man walks across a crosswalk in front of a grand building with a large red door in Paris, France. The French flag flies above the entrance.
๐Ÿšถโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A grand classical building with a prominent dome stands under a clear blue sky. The facade features columns and ornate details, suggesting a historic and important structure.
๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
Athens Pride 2026 | ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ
A serene yoga studio with several yoga mats laid out on a wooden floor. Large windows with sheer curtains allow natural light to fill the space, and a unique lamp provides a warm glow.
๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ @Chez Simone ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A charming Parisian cafe, Cafe Saint Honorรฉ, is adorned with abundant pink cherry blossoms and decorative lanterns. A red bicycle is parked outside, and tables and chairs are set up for outdoor seating.
โ˜•๏ธ ๐Ÿฅ ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A bald man wearing a white t-shirt and white pants walks away from the camera towards a grand building with columns. He carries a light-colored backpack and has a jacket tied around his waist.
๐Ÿšถโ€โ™‚๏ธ
Three friends pose for a selfie in front of a body of water, likely in Paris, on a sunny day. The person on the left is bald and wearing sunglasses and a white t-shirt. The person in the middle is a woman wearing a black polka dot dress and sunglasse
3โ€ฆ2โ€ฆ1โ€ฆ ๐Ÿ“ธ
All I see is red, oh red ๐Ÿ”ด
A man is performing a yoga pose called Sirsa Setu Bandhasana, which involves arching his back and resting his head on the floor. Another person is visible in the background, also engaged in yoga practice.
Sirsa Setu Bandhasana in the making ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ
A person's legs and feet are shown from a first-person perspective, standing on a sandy beach as a wave with sea foam washes ashore during golden hour.
Golden hour, sea foam and zero complaints.
A bald man with a light beard lies in bed, partially covered by white sheets. He looks directly at the camera with a slightly questioning expression.
Two occasions ๐ŸŽ‚ Zero motivation to get up ๐Ÿ›Œ #birthday
A shirtless man with sunglasses and a bald head stands on a beach, looking out at a catamaran sailing on the clear blue ocean under a bright sky.
Mentally Offshore ๐Ÿ๏ธ๐Ÿ›ฅ๏ธ
A bald man with his arms crossed poses in front of a window during a golden hour sunset. He is wearing a sleeveless shirt and striped pants, with sandals on his feet.
Golden light ๐ŸŒ… Quiet mind ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ Nothing else required!
A man is captured in a yoga pose outdoors with a clear blue sky and ocean in the background. He is wearing a white t-shirt and light-colored shorts, demonstrating flexibility and strength.
๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ
Yoga Retreat: Tinos ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ท
A man and a woman pose for a selfie in front of the Louvre Museum's glass pyramid in Paris. Both are wearing sunglasses, and the man is bald while the woman has long, dark hair.
Two masterpieces, one Louvre ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A sun sets behind a distant archway, casting a warm glow over a tree-lined road. The road appears wet, reflecting the golden light of the setting sun.
๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A bald man wearing a kilt walks up a set of stairs next to a street in Paris, France.
๐Ÿšถโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A bald man walks down a tree-lined path in a park on a sunny day. The path is made of dirt and lined with tall, green trees on either side, leading towards a bright blue sky.
๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A group of friends takes a selfie in a shop window in Paris. The reflection shows three people in the foreground, with two men and one woman. In the background, two more people are visible walking down the street.
๐Ÿ“ธ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A couple stands on either side of a stone archway in Paris, France, pointing towards each other. The architecture features ornate carvings and hanging lanterns.
๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A wide river flows through a European city, with bridges spanning its width and historic buildings lining the banks under a bright, partly cloudy sky.
๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
Athens Pride 2026 | ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ
Athens Pride 2026 | ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ
The Eiffel Tower is illuminated at night, with its intricate iron lattice structure and golden lights visible against the dark blue sky.
Eiffel Tower ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
The Arc de Triomphe in Paris stands tall against a soft yellow sunset sky. The iconic monument is framed by a vast cobblestone plaza, with a few people visible in the distance.
Arc De Triomphe ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A bald man wearing a white t-shirt and pink pants stands on a bridge overlooking the Seine River in Paris, France. He has a denim jacket tied around his waist and is checking his watch.
Seine, Paris, France ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท
A poster for Athens Pride 2026 features a collage of many individual portraits of people against a white background. The text at the top reads 'ATHENS PRIDE 2026' in rainbow colors. Below this, event details like date, location, and time are listed i
๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Celebrate Athens Pride! Join the vibrant Athens Pride parade this Saturday, June 13, 2026. The festivities center at Syntagma Square, with the parade kicking off at 19:00. Enjoy live concerts, drag performances, and DJs in the heart of the city. Getting There: Take the Metro (Lines 2 or 3) directly to Syntagma Station. Expect large crowds and road closures in the center. Wear comfy shoes, stay hydrated, and enjoy the celebration! Keep an eye on the official for updates.
A man in athletic wear stands on a tennis court holding a racket. The image is taken from a low angle, looking up at the man against a backdrop of the sky and trees.
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Read an article from Bolde which argues that the "strange flatness" many feel in their 40s isnโ€™t burnout; itโ€™s the bodyโ€™s accurate report on a life built from a long series of safe, "unobjectionable choices." By middle age, life can be objectively functionalโ€”good job, stable homeโ€”yet feel hollow because "fine" has become a ceiling. We hit the milestones we thought would bring happiness, only to realize we built a life authored by circumstances rather than our own authentic desires. For a gay person, this hits with unique intensity. Those early "sensible" decisions were often survival tactics. To avoid rejection or shield against shame, many overcompensated by playing the "perfect, high-achieving citizen," adopting a traditional, heteronormative template just to blend in. At 40, the flatness arrives when that protective shield becomes a cage. It is the exhaustion of a lifelong performance, and the mourning of a "delayed adolescence" spent hiding instead of exploring. The discomfort isn't a crisis; it is agency knocking on the door. Armed with midlife stability, itโ€™s a signal that it is finally safe to stop making "defensible" choices and start authoring an authentic life. Thoughts?
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