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Stefan (@xochipili) - Collective Profile | Los Angeles, US Healthcare Support. Healing all kinds of trauma, while adulting. Oddball. Gaymer. Lover. Spiritual. Neurospicy. πŸ’žβœ¨ Recent posts: a man with platinum blonde hair smiles at the camera. he has tattoos on his shoulder and chest., a man with purple hair and glasses makes a funny face while taking a selfie. he is lying down on a bed., a man with purple hair smiles at the camera, wearing glasses and a black t-shirt. he is indoors, likely at home., a person with purple hair and sunglasses smiles at the camera. they are wearing a plaid shirt and jeans., a map showing a 3-mile run along a beach, with details on distance, duration, and calories burned., a group of friends pose for a selfie outdoors. they are smiling and wearing sunglasses, enjoying a sunny day., a scenic view of a beach at sunset, with the sun shining brightly over the buildings in the distance. the sand is marked with tire tracks., a man takes a selfie in a bathroom, showing off his freshly dyed blue and purple hair. he's wrapped in a towel and sticking his tongue out..
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Stefan @xochipili

Healing all kinds of trauma, while adulting. Oddball. Gaymer. Lover. Spiritual. Neurospicy. πŸ’žβœ¨
Los Angeles, US
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A man with platinum blonde hair smiles at the camera. He has tattoos on his shoulder and chest.
Rare, brief moment where I have nearly platinum blonde hair lol 😝 I’m loving my blue/purple mixture, especially because purple is my favorite color β˜ΊοΈπŸ’œ excited for the next color I do, in the coming months πŸ€”
I know, I know, I’m super late in watching this show, but I am obsessed with Schitts Creek 🀣 my spirit animal is a combination of Stevie, David & Twyla haha 🫢🏽
A man with purple hair and glasses makes a funny face while taking a selfie. He is lying down on a bed.
This is my β€œslept 3 hours last night” face 😾 I have been sober 20 days, because I am curious to know, how actively choosing to not drink, impacts my life. I’ve quit vaping 9 weeks ago, as well. It’s like I’m Cady Heron; sucking the poison out of my life.. πŸ€”
What band/artist/song is your go to right now? I love music & I almost always have music playing; Here’s my top 5 most listened to songs, within the last 4 weeks, according to my Spotify stats; 1. Cry - Cigarettes After Sex 2. WIFI - NOTD, Mercer Henderson 3. Where Your Soul Belongs - John Brewster 4. After Dark - Mr.Kitty 5. Boots on the Ground - 803Fresh Quite the variation πŸ˜†
A man with purple hair smiles at the camera, wearing glasses and a black t-shirt. He is indoors, likely at home.
The superpowers that are a fresh haircut & freshly colored hair.. undeniable πŸ’™πŸ’œ
A person with purple hair and sunglasses smiles at the camera. They are wearing a plaid shirt and jeans.
Hi Collective 🀭😘
Is it just me or did anyone else start kicking their feet up, while giggling, when Patrick and David had their first kiss in Patrick’s car AND THEN again in David’s store? YAMETE KUDASAI !! 😝😝😝
A map showing a 3-mile run along a beach, with details on distance, duration, and calories burned.
Literally kicking and screaming! Jkay 😝 Hit a new Jogging/Running PR today! My asthma was activated the whole time, but she kept pushing girl 😫 lord have mercy. Nothing like soaking up the sun, emptying my mind and disconnecting for awhile. ❀️
A group of friends pose for a selfie outdoors. They are smiling and wearing sunglasses, enjoying a sunny day.
I love this picture 😘πŸ₯°
For those of us whom are spiritually inclined, I’ve been seeing 11:11, 111, 333 & 555, everyday for a few days now; I feel as though - the self reflecting, removal of energy blocks, uncovering trauma and actively healing, has lead me to now. I release all negative emotions and energies connected to those whom are no longer a part of my life & I welcome positive energy in its place. Manifesting the blessings, the positive abundance, health, success, growth, love, peace, joy and happiness. Thank you universe, more please πŸ₯°β€οΈ
A scenic view of a beach at sunset, with the sun shining brightly over the buildings in the distance. The sand is marked with tire tracks.
Honestly, even though I have a love/hate relationship with jogging/running, there’s something about; feeling the sun on my skin, watching my feet hit the terrain, focused breathing & the ocean breeze, that makes me want to keep going πŸŒŠβ˜€οΈ
A man takes a selfie in a bathroom, showing off his freshly dyed blue and purple hair. He's wrapped in a towel and sticking his tongue out.
Excited to redo my hair this week πŸ₯°πŸ’™πŸ’œ
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