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Stefan @xochipili

Healing all kinds of trauma, while adulting. Oddball. Gaymer. Lover. Spiritual. Neurospicy. 💞✨

Rare, brief moment where I have nearly platinum blonde hair lol 😝 I’m loving my blue/purple mixture, especially because purple is my favorite color ☺️💜 excited for the next color I do, in the coming months 🤔

Literally kicking and screaming! Jkay 😝 Hit a new Jogging/Running PR today! My asthma was activated the whole time, but she kept pushing girl 😫 lord have mercy. Nothing like soaking up the sun, emptying my mind and disconnecting for awhile. ❤️

What band/artist/song is your go to right now? I love music & I almost always have music playing; Here’s my top 5 most listened to songs, within the last 4 weeks, according to my Spotify stats; 1. Cry - Cigarettes After Sex 2. WIFI - NOTD, Mercer Henderson 3. Where Your Soul Belongs - John Brewster 4. After Dark - Mr.Kitty 5. Boots on the Ground - 803Fresh Quite the variation 😆

Honestly, even though I have a love/hate relationship with jogging/running, there’s something about; feeling the sun on my skin, watching my feet hit the terrain, focused breathing & the ocean breeze, that makes me want to keep going 🌊☀️

Is it just me or did anyone else start kicking their feet up, while giggling, when Patrick and David had their first kiss in Patrick’s car AND THEN again in David’s store? YAMETE KUDASAI !! 😝😝😝

This is my “slept 3 hours last night” face 😾 I have been sober 20 days, because I am curious to know, how actively choosing to not drink, impacts my life. I’ve quit vaping 9 weeks ago, as well. It’s like I’m Cady Heron; sucking the poison out of my life.. 🤔

For those of us whom are spiritually inclined, I’ve been seeing 11:11, 111, 333 & 555, everyday for a few days now; I feel as though - the self reflecting, removal of energy blocks, uncovering trauma and actively healing, has lead me to now. I release all negative emotions and energies connected to those whom are no longer a part of my life & I welcome positive energy in its place. Manifesting the blessings, the positive abundance, health, success, growth, love, peace, joy and happiness. Thank you universe, more please 🥰❤️

Hi Collective 🤭😘

I know, I know, I’m super late in watching this show, but I am obsessed with Schitts Creek 🤣 my spirit animal is a combination of Stevie, David & Twyla haha 🫶🏽

I love this picture 😘🥰

The superpowers that are a fresh haircut & freshly colored hair.. undeniable 💙💜

Excited to redo my hair this week 🥰💙💜