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Stefan (@xochipili) - Collective Profile | Los Angeles, US Healthcare Support. Healing all kinds of trauma, while adulting. Oddball. Gaymer. Lover. Spiritual. Neurospicy. ๐Ÿ’žโœจ Recent posts: a man with platinum blonde hair smiles at the camera. he has tattoos on his shoulder and chest., a man with purple hair and glasses makes a funny face while taking a selfie. he is lying down on a bed., a man with purple hair smiles at the camera, wearing glasses and a black t-shirt. he is indoors, likely at home., a person with purple hair and sunglasses smiles at the camera. they are wearing a plaid shirt and jeans., a map showing a 3-mile run along a beach, with details on distance, duration, and calories burned., a group of friends pose for a selfie outdoors. they are smiling and wearing sunglasses, enjoying a sunny day., a scenic view of a beach at sunset, with the sun shining brightly over the buildings in the distance. the sand is marked with tire tracks., a man takes a selfie in a bathroom, showing off his freshly dyed blue and purple hair. he's wrapped in a towel and sticking his tongue out..
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Stefan @xochipili

Healing all kinds of trauma, while adulting. Oddball. Gaymer. Lover. Spiritual. Neurospicy. ๐Ÿ’žโœจ
Los Angeles, US
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A man with platinum blonde hair smiles at the camera. He has tattoos on his shoulder and chest.
Rare, brief moment where I have nearly platinum blonde hair lol ๐Ÿ˜ Iโ€™m loving my blue/purple mixture, especially because purple is my favorite color โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ’œ excited for the next color I do, in the coming months ๐Ÿค”
I know, I know, Iโ€™m super late in watching this show, but I am obsessed with Schitts Creek ๐Ÿคฃ my spirit animal is a combination of Stevie, David & Twyla haha ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ
A man with purple hair and glasses makes a funny face while taking a selfie. He is lying down on a bed.
This is my โ€œslept 3 hours last nightโ€ face ๐Ÿ˜พ I have been sober 20 days, because I am curious to know, how actively choosing to not drink, impacts my life. Iโ€™ve quit vaping 9 weeks ago, as well. Itโ€™s like Iโ€™m Cady Heron; sucking the poison out of my life.. ๐Ÿค”
What band/artist/song is your go to right now? I love music & I almost always have music playing; Hereโ€™s my top 5 most listened to songs, within the last 4 weeks, according to my Spotify stats; 1. Cry - Cigarettes After Sex 2. WIFI - NOTD, Mercer Henderson 3. Where Your Soul Belongs - John Brewster 4. After Dark - Mr.Kitty 5. Boots on the Ground - 803Fresh Quite the variation ๐Ÿ˜†
A man with purple hair smiles at the camera, wearing glasses and a black t-shirt. He is indoors, likely at home.
The superpowers that are a fresh haircut & freshly colored hair.. undeniable ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ
A person with purple hair and sunglasses smiles at the camera. They are wearing a plaid shirt and jeans.
Hi Collective ๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿ˜˜
Is it just me or did anyone else start kicking their feet up, while giggling, when Patrick and David had their first kiss in Patrickโ€™s car AND THEN again in Davidโ€™s store? YAMETE KUDASAI !! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
A map showing a 3-mile run along a beach, with details on distance, duration, and calories burned.
Literally kicking and screaming! Jkay ๐Ÿ˜ Hit a new Jogging/Running PR today! My asthma was activated the whole time, but she kept pushing girl ๐Ÿ˜ซ lord have mercy. Nothing like soaking up the sun, emptying my mind and disconnecting for awhile. โค๏ธ
A group of friends pose for a selfie outdoors. They are smiling and wearing sunglasses, enjoying a sunny day.
I love this picture ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿฅฐ
For those of us whom are spiritually inclined, Iโ€™ve been seeing 11:11, 111, 333 & 555, everyday for a few days now; I feel as though - the self reflecting, removal of energy blocks, uncovering trauma and actively healing, has lead me to now. I release all negative emotions and energies connected to those whom are no longer a part of my life & I welcome positive energy in its place. Manifesting the blessings, the positive abundance, health, success, growth, love, peace, joy and happiness. Thank you universe, more please ๐Ÿฅฐโค๏ธ
A scenic view of a beach at sunset, with the sun shining brightly over the buildings in the distance. The sand is marked with tire tracks.
Honestly, even though I have a love/hate relationship with jogging/running, thereโ€™s something about; feeling the sun on my skin, watching my feet hit the terrain, focused breathing & the ocean breeze, that makes me want to keep going ๐ŸŒŠโ˜€๏ธ
A man takes a selfie in a bathroom, showing off his freshly dyed blue and purple hair. He's wrapped in a towel and sticking his tongue out.
Excited to redo my hair this week ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ
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