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Serg (@xserg) - Collective Profile | Phoenix, US Mucho gusto Follow @tio_sergy on Instagram. Recent posts: a man wearing a white bucket hat and glasses smiles at the camera against a clear blue sky., the cover of a book titled "sex dreams about platonic friends" is shown. the cover is a textured light pink with a dark blue spine. a rectangular box in the center contains the title in dark blue text., a person with dark, curly hair whispers into the ear of a classical marble bust. the sculpture depicts a young person with a serene expression and a laurel wreath on their head. text at the bottom of the image reads, "i remember the first time i fell, a woman with blonde hair is performing a split while wearing a pink leotard and tights. she is facing away from the camera, showcasing her flexibility and dance attire., a spotify song cover for 'losing you' by solange features a bright yellow square in the top left corner. the background is a deep olive green, and bold black text reads, 'i gave you everything and now there's nothing left of me.', an elderly man with glasses and a beard speaks into a microphone during an interview. text overlays the image with a quote about critics., a spotify post featuring the lyrics "nobody stands in between me and my man" from the song "me & mr jones" by amy winehouse., a yellow, two-door off-road vehicle with a spare tire mounted on the back and a roof rack is shown in profile against a white background., a blue background with the text "you don't have to be extreme, just consistent." repeated eight times in white font., a man looks up at a bright blue sky filled with fluffy white clouds. he is wearing a white shirt and has a mullet., a minimalist painting of a breakfast table set for a meal. the scene features a pink tablecloth, chairs, and a vase of red flowers., a minimalist sculpture of a human figure draped in fabric. the figure is a study in form and texture against a gray background., an outdoor dining area with a minimalist design. the scene is bathed in sunlight, with shadows cast across the grass., a close-up of a marble statue of a male torso. the sculpture showcases defined abs and chest muscles., a close-up of a classical painting depicting a man's face. a hand is reaching out to touch the man's face., .
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Serg @xserg

Mucho gusto
Phoenix, US
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A man wearing a white bucket hat and glasses smiles at the camera against a clear blue sky.
The cover of a book titled "SEX DREAMS ABOUT PLATONIC FRIENDS" is shown. The cover is a textured light pink with a dark blue spine. A rectangular box in the center contains the title in dark blue text.
A person with dark, curly hair whispers into the ear of a classical marble bust. The sculpture depicts a young person with a serene expression and a laurel wreath on their head. Text at the bottom of the image reads, "I remember the first time I fell
A woman with blonde hair is performing a split while wearing a pink leotard and tights. She is facing away from the camera, showcasing her flexibility and dance attire.
A Spotify song cover for 'Losing You' by Solange features a bright yellow square in the top left corner. The background is a deep olive green, and bold black text reads, 'I gave you everything and now there's nothing left of me.'
An elderly man with glasses and a beard speaks into a microphone during an interview. Text overlays the image with a quote about critics.
A Spotify post featuring the lyrics "Nobody stands in between me and my man" from the song "Me & Mr Jones" by Amy Winehouse.
A yellow, two-door off-road vehicle with a spare tire mounted on the back and a roof rack is shown in profile against a white background.
A blue background with the text "You don't have to be extreme, just consistent." repeated eight times in white font.
A man looks up at a bright blue sky filled with fluffy white clouds. He is wearing a white shirt and has a mullet.
A minimalist painting of a breakfast table set for a meal. The scene features a pink tablecloth, chairs, and a vase of red flowers.
A minimalist sculpture of a human figure draped in fabric. The figure is a study in form and texture against a gray background.
An outdoor dining area with a minimalist design. The scene is bathed in sunlight, with shadows cast across the grass.
A close-up of a marble statue of a male torso. The sculpture showcases defined abs and chest muscles.
A close-up of a classical painting depicting a man's face. A hand is reaching out to touch the man's face.
A man in a ballet studio stretches his leg at the barre. The black and white photo highlights his muscular physique.
A yellow sticky note with black text. The text is a quote about resisting the urge to perform emotions while still feeling them.
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A modern bedroom with unique architectural features. The room features a bed, a chair, and a record player.
A minimalist bedroom with a bed, pillows, and a paper lantern. The room has a modern and clean aesthetic.
A modern wooden chair with a unique zig-zag design. The chair is made of wood and has a minimalist aesthetic.
As a former Babygirl™, the older I get, the more my views on partnership shift. I still value connection, emotional intimacy, chemistry, and quality time deeply. But I’ve realized I don’t need romantic partnership to access those things. Intimacy can exist in friendships, chosen family, community, and the random stranger who changes your perspective during a 20-minute conversation. I also think many queer people come of age collecting fragments of what adulthood could look like. We find pieces of ourselves in others, but not always a full picture of what a thriving, joyful queer life can be. So much of it becomes an act of authorship. We’ve inherited the idea that partnership completes us, but I wonder if the real work is becoming familiar with ourselves first—our values, needs, desires, boundaries—so that any relationship we choose complements our lives rather than defines them. These days, I think I’m more interested in knowing myself well enough to choose relationships from alignment rather than longing, obligation, or fear. Curious: How have your views on partnership changed over time? What examples of queer adulthood shaped your understanding of joy? What parts of your life have you intentionally designed for yourself?
A close-up shot focuses on the muscular legs and athletic shorts of a soccer player, seen through a net.
Who are some of your queer elder reference points?
A large tree with lush green leaves grows through the decaying interior of a classical building, its branches reaching towards the sky visible through a large opening in the ceiling. The weathered white columns and ornate details of the architecture
An abstract painting features a close-up view of a blue, stylized human leg resting on a dark surface. Two oval shapes, one pink and one white, are depicted on the leg, adding a surreal element to the composition.
A white t-shirt features a row of cartoon ducklings with the words "SOBER" above them and "Son Of a Bitch Everything's Real" below.
A painting depicts a woman lying on a yellow bed in a hotel room. The woman is wearing a red shirt and dark pants, with her face turned away from the viewer. A mirror reflects a lamp on a dresser behind the bed.
A woman in a dark floral dress poses at night in front of a beach bar. She leans against a tree, looking towards the camera with a serious expression.
A modern bedroom features a tufted leather chair and a yellow rug in front of a bed with blue and white linens. The space is accented by artwork and a stainless steel headboard.
Me flirting: Do you think we’re compatible?
A window with white curtains and a framed picture on the wall. The room has a minimalist and clean aesthetic.
A charming brick house with a white picket fence. The house has a unique architectural style with dormer windows and lush greenery.
A black and white image of a man reading a book. The text overlay reads "Things I hold most dear: music, nature, poetry, solitude."
A graphic featuring song lyrics in Spanish from Juan Gabriel's "Lagrimas y Lluvia" on a Spotify background.
A close-up of a gray hoodie adorned with sparkling crystals and the phrase "What if it all works out" in a stylish font. The hoodie is displayed against a decorative background.
A meme with text that reads, "He's a doll. He's a dreamboat. He's a delinquent."
A man wearing a grey sweater and jeans, with a watch on his wrist. His hands are clasped in front of him.
A woman takes a selfie, showcasing her jewelry and long, dark hair. The photo is a close-up, highlighting her earrings and rings.
A text overlay on a muted green background promotes mental health. The text is in Spanish and references therapy, a psychologist, and a psychiatrist.
A close-up shot of a woman's stylish outfit. The focus is on the unique yellow and black star-shaped leather pants and a silver-buckled belt.
#nichecore i’m in you
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