Lee (@anseo) • Collective gay friends app

Lee @anseo

Irish immigrant in London working in the music industry. Activist. Come for the memes, stay for the vibes. 💖💛💙

Who else is a multitasker? 🙋

Being the only enby at my gym isn’t easy, I’ve even caught the staff staring once or twice with a curious expression. I’m post top surgery but not on T so I cut an unusual physique I suppose. It’s uncomfortable but exercise is one of the very few things that helps my dysphoria so we push on 🤷

This is one of the future assistance dogs my parents are fostering. She’s 7 months now and an absolute tornado of energy. I kissed her fuzzy head this morning and hopped on a plane back to London. She tried to climb into my coat pocket to come too 🥲

“The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears or the sea.” Isak Dinesen

If seeing this made you think of someone, this is your reminder not to text them x

Bisexual icon Devon.

My thoughts as soon as I try to sleep.

My mum saw me tightening up my fade in the bathroom and bravely volunteered to give me a hand. My father put his head around the door later and offered to get a bit I missed. They get my pronouns wrong all the time and it’s not always easy but my god, they love me fiercely in their own way.

The deep peace of the Irish countryside.

It’s been a rough few weeks so I dipped home to Ireland for a quick recharge. There’s nothing quite like spending time with my first two loves - the Atlantic Ocean and dogs.

My parents fully support me being non-binary, but still constantly forget my pronouns - even years later 🫠 I’m home for a few days and thinking of shaking a pronouns donation jar whenever they slip up to help them REMEMBER. I’ll donate all the money to Palestine at the end of my trip. Pronouns for Palestine.

Nancy always parks herself near me because she KNOWS she’ll get endless attention and affection 🙂‍↕️

When a straight person asks me a suspicious amount of questions about being queer.

Alright, which one of you heathens made this?

My gaydar? A *mess* My ability to sense a TERF? Unbeaten.

🎵 I’ll just keep on holdin’ on 🎵

A friend is currently dealing with a moth infestation. One of their housemates is apparently “too busy” to check if there’s a nest in his room. His solution? Ordering a box of wasps and releasing them in there 💀

A little sunbeam on legs.

How it feels listening to someone retell me their weird dream when I didn’t ask.

Tried to eat his own fur and accidentally gave himself a goofy Santa-looking beard extension. I was *creased* at this.

Heading home this weekend. I need the deep peace of the Irish countryside.

That awkward week after a haircut where you have no fucking idea how to style it.

There is nothing like the friendship of a dog.

I cut 10mins off an app’s walking time estimation simply because I’m gay and therefore walk faster than my straight counterparts x

The final boss of ADHD.

Unmuting my mic to speak at the meeting after not paying attention to a single thing anyone’s said.

Benji the rescue dog from Transylvania. He had an underbite and a snaggle tooth, the thickest most beautiful coat I’ve ever seen in my *life* and loved humans with a ferocity I’ve never experienced before. We absolutely adored him to the point that we broke our own hearts to help him be happy 🐕 ♥️

We finally adopted a dog last weekend and what should have been a joyful time became heartbreak. The charity were unaware of how unsuited he was to city life. He was inconsolably terrified of noise. Then our landlord banned him from using our shared garden (due to her cat+his stress reactivity).

My purpose in the group chat.

Stress levels = Working out to classical music because my heart rate doesn’t need encouragement 🙃 Bangers from the 1700s ONLY ❌

A universal rallying cry in my opinion.

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