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Daddy is at the gym (@daddy_is_here) - Collective Profile | London, GB Global director of AI and. Recently lost my life partner of 15 years. Looking for friends, talks, distractions, and connections. Follow @unexpected_item on Instagram. Recent posts: a man with short hair and stubble is shown outdoors, wearing a black shirt and touching his eye. lush greenery and a woven light fixture are visible in the background., a man looks up at the sky in a park setting. he is wearing a white shirt and has a colorful lanyard around his neck. the background features trees and a cloudy sky., a man with stubble and a mustache looks directly at the camera with a serious expression. he is wearing a dark crewneck sweatshirt outdoors with trees and a cloudy sky in the background., a shirtless man with muscular arms rests his head on his arm, eyes closed, with a pensive expression. the lighting is dim and casts a pinkish hue., a man with short dark hair and stubble is looking at the camera with a sad expression. he is shirtless and appears to be lying down on a couch., two children sit on the side of a road with luggage and an umbrella, as the sun sets behind apartment buildings in the distance. the caption suggests the end of summer is near., a man wearing a baseball cap and a green tank top poses for a selfie in what appears to be a gym. the lighting is warm and yellow, casting a glow on his face and muscular arms., a small chihuahua dog sleeps peacefully on a striped cushion placed on a window sill. sunlight streams in, illuminating the dog's fur and the surrounding greenery visible outside., a small dog is curled up on a patterned blanket, appearing relaxed and asleep. the dog has brown fur and large ears., a close-up shot of a car's rear with the iconic mustang logo prominently displayed. the image highlights the car's design and details., a close-up outdoor shot of a man with short dark hair, stubble, and a mustache. he is wearing a dark t-shirt and looking off to the side with a neutral expression. behind him is a brick building with a balcony., a man with short hair and stubble poses for a selfie in a park with large trees and green leaves overhead., a man with stubble and a moustache looks into the camera with a blurred background of trees and buildings., a shirtless man with a mustache and stubble is illuminated by red light, looking down with a pensive expression. he is sitting on a couch with a patterned blanket behind him., a close-up, slightly blurry photo shows two men embracing. the man in the foreground, on the left, is bald, wears glasses, and has a teal shirt. the man behind him, on the right, has short dark hair and a black t-shirt, with his arm around the other, .
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Daddy is at the gym @daddy_is_here

Recently lost my life partner of 15 years. Looking for friends, talks, distractions, and connections.
London, GB
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Step. By. Step.
This morning was hard.
A shirtless man with muscular arms rests his head on his arm, eyes closed, with a pensive expression. The lighting is dim and casts a pinkish hue.
It’s so late. But cannot sleep. Afraid to. When I doc the demons come. And I experience fear so primal, it feels like physical pain in the pit of my stomach.
A man with short dark hair and stubble is looking at the camera with a sad expression. He is shirtless and appears to be lying down on a couch.
Two weeks in after the death of my soulmate, my love, my rock. It’s late at night and this is when the demons arrive. The fear in the pit of my stomach that wakes me, with a cry. The re-realisation that I will never hug him again, never stare into his big brown eyes, never hear his laugh, never argue about what stuff to watch on YouTube. It’s getting darker, colder, emptier. Honestly, I don’t know how I can move forward without him.
Two children sit on the side of a road with luggage and an umbrella, as the sun sets behind apartment buildings in the distance. The caption suggests the end of summer is near.
The never-ending summer suddenly has an end in sight.
A man wearing a baseball cap and a green tank top poses for a selfie in what appears to be a gym. The lighting is warm and yellow, casting a glow on his face and muscular arms.
Apparently , I should smile more. Whilst at the gym. Whilst working out. Hmmm…
Well, when the weather is like this, what else is there to do?
Time to chill out 2/2.
A close-up shot of a car's rear with the iconic Mustang logo prominently displayed. The image highlights the car's design and details.
Time to wash my horse.
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Mood.
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If it weren’t for trans women, and trans women of colour, this app wouldn’t exist.
Ditched Netflix. Switched to Mubi. So much better!
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The Queen is asleep. So, shut it…
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Still think it’s silly when I see how much shit I’ve lifted up. And then put back down.
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When you work your ass off at the gym for years and change your body composition, hugely, and then go to a gay club night and have everyone look through you as though you’re simply a fragment of nothingness that they navigate rapidly through…
Darkening.
Does this get easier?
And so it goes on. FFS, I look like shite. Looking cute isn’t the point right now, I guess. Grief is a strange beast.
A shirtless man with a mustache and stubble is illuminated by red light, looking down with a pensive expression. He is sitting on a couch with a patterned blanket behind him.
Another night alone. Why is it the demons always arrive at this time? The physical fear in the pit of my stomach builds at unexpected speed, galloping through every fibre of my body and rendering me into a jibbering wreck.
A close-up, slightly blurry photo shows two men embracing. The man in the foreground, on the left, is bald, wears glasses, and has a teal shirt. The man behind him, on the right, has short dark hair and a black t-shirt, with his arm around the other
An ancient pic of me and my beloved partner who recently passed away. This was close to our journey of 15 years and I feel so privileged to have had the time with him.
A shirtless man wearing a white baseball cap sticks his tongue out playfully. He is outdoors with lush green foliage and decorative lanterns in the background.
Melting
A close-up shot focuses on a man's muscular legs as he works out at the gym. He is wearing black athletic shorts and blue and white patterned socks.
They’re finally rebuilding after so long injured :)
A man takes a selfie indoors. He is wearing a shirt and has dark hair and stubble.
Is it summer, yet?
Time to chill out 1/2.
A man takes a selfie, shirtless, in bed. He sticks his tongue out.
So early. So sunny already. Could get used to this Med life…
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Furry enough?
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I. Am. Not. Eating. These.
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Does my shower look big in this?
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Who’s going to Roast this Saturday?
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