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Ivan (@goodbadboy) - Collective Profile | Berlin, DE Watch out: this account has long captions!! 🚩 Recent posts: a man with stubble and dimples takes a selfie at night in a city. the background shows streetlights and blurred buildings., a man takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom, showing off his torso and tattoos. he is looking down with a slight smile., a person is holding open a copy of james baldwin's "giovanni's room" while sitting on a bed. the book cover features a silhouette of a man against a red background with smaller illustrations of figures., a man with short brown hair and stubble poses for a selfie in a white tank top. he has a tattoo on his left arm and is standing in what appears to be a bathroom., a couple sits at a table with coffee cups, smiling and looking at each other. the caption expresses frustration about long-distance dating., a man flexes his arm in a bathroom, showcasing a large tattoo. he is shirtless, highlighting his muscular physique., a nighttime street scene in berlin, germany, with buildings, parked cars, and bicycles. the image captures the urban atmosphere with a focus on architecture and street elements., a man takes a shirtless mirror selfie. he is in a tropical location with lush greenery in the background., a man poses shirtless in front of a mirror, wearing white calvin klein underwear. he has tattoos and a muscular physique., a man with short, dark hair and earrings poses for a selfie. he is wearing a black shirt., a disco ball hangs from the ceiling, reflecting blue and pink lights. the photo was taken at a queer christmas market., a man takes a mirror selfie in a gym locker room. he is shirtless, showing off his muscular physique., a man takes a mirror selfie in a gym. he is wearing a patterned t-shirt and holding a phone., a nighttime shot of a building with a sign that says "willkommen in delphi leo." people are walking on the sidewalk in front of the building., a man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless and wearing boxer shorts. he has a muscular physique and a light stubble., .
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A man with stubble and dimples takes a selfie at night in a city. The background shows streetlights and blurred buildings.
Hi 🙋
A man takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom, showing off his torso and tattoos. He is looking down with a slight smile.
Happy Friday to all validation seekers 😭 I hope to grow out of it will I
When he’s putting too much effort into our first date, I can’t help but wonder if there’s something about him I don’t know yet—something he’s compensating for with all this extra effort. I’d be happy to be wrong.
A person is holding open a copy of James Baldwin's "Giovanni's Room" while sitting on a bed. The book cover features a silhouette of a man against a red background with smaller illustrations of figures.
Reading Giovanni’s Room. Prepared to cry.
A man with short brown hair and stubble poses for a selfie in a white tank top. He has a tattoo on his left arm and is standing in what appears to be a bathroom.
Any movie buddies in Berlin? Zoologischer Garten or Kottbuser Tor areas? I often go alone but would be nice to go with someone and then discuss it together. Coffee dates are also welcome
Why are all the people I’m matching with in the US??? This could be you and me having a cup of coffee and sharing funny stories if it weren’t for the thousands of kilometers between us.
A man flexes his arm in a bathroom, showcasing a large tattoo. He is shirtless, highlighting his muscular physique.
Thinking another tattoo. These are the gifts I’m giving myself when I grew up🙂 Did I though?
A nighttime street scene in Berlin, Germany, with buildings, parked cars, and bicycles. The image captures the urban atmosphere with a focus on architecture and street elements.
Loved Wuthering Heights. I didn’t know the story was so wild. Su beautiful and tragic. One can feel sorry for them but what they experienced most people never experience. I mean real love, real passion. I see beauty. Heathcliff should have never shaved;) he was soooo hot.
A man takes a shirtless mirror selfie. He is in a tropical location with lush greenery in the background.
When I meet your eyes I hurry to look away. Before I can find out if my stare is welcome or not. I don’t want to know. Knowing means I need to do something with that knowledge. And that’s what I’m afraid of
A man poses shirtless in front of a mirror, wearing white Calvin Klein underwear. He has tattoos and a muscular physique.
Yay the titties are back and ready to be seen by this world
A man with short, dark hair and earrings poses for a selfie. He is wearing a black shirt.
Don’t do it little girl
A disco ball hangs from the ceiling, reflecting blue and pink lights. The photo was taken at a queer Christmas market.
The Queer Christmas market at Nollendorfplatz looks cute as usual
What else to do in winter after work in Berlin? It’s already dark at 4 pm. Evenings are especially long. I try to do gym several times per week and once per week yoga. And I have a hard time finding more things to do so instead rewatching some favorite anime (Attack on Titan🤤). Any good ideas for this time of the year? I guess socializing would be great but for that I need to find more people to socialize:) I’ll see a friend on Friday and a few more on Sunday. Are you guys very social and always have people around you throughout the week? Note: work from home queen here so no office and no live work meetings
A man takes a mirror selfie in a gym locker room. He is shirtless, showing off his muscular physique.
I am so funny at gym. People think I’m so dedicated when in reality I skipped almost half a year and back at it just a month ago. God bless muscle memory
A man takes a mirror selfie in a gym. He is wearing a patterned t-shirt and holding a phone.
I know it’s just dopamine but it feels so real to me. Robyn slayed so hard 🔥
I’m thinking way too much how I’m being perceived by other people. It’s tiring and annoying. It’s making me rethink things I’ve done or said in the past like I did something wrong. Like I hurt people with my words. How do I stop playing these scenarios in my head and blaming myself for being too honest, too sarcastic, too direct. I am me and I want to live freely and authentically. If people can’t take me well then I’ll find those that can. I am so tired regretting things I’ve done or said to people. The only person I really need to stop being so hard on is myself.
Berlin. Who’s going to queer performance festival this weekend? I got balcony on Saturday. No idea what to expect
A nighttime shot of a building with a sign that says "Willkommen in Delphi Leo." People are walking on the sidewalk in front of the building.
Die My Love movie was not easy. Enough is what I wanted to say at 2/3 of the movie
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless and wearing boxer shorts. He has a muscular physique and a light stubble.
Started to like big “dad” boxers this year. There’s something refreshing about it. Realized I don’t need to show every centimeter of my skin to feel sexy. I can even be dressed 🤭
A movie poster for the film "Pillion" is displayed, with information about the movie's rating and overview.
Oooooh how lucky Dudley Dursley is!!! Good for him.
A man takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. He is wearing a white t-shirt, jeans, and a backpack.
A man in a grey tank top takes a mirror selfie in a gym bathroom. He is flexing his arm and appears to be muscular.
Fitness is so good for our mental health. I’m back at it
A man takes a selfie in a mirror, wearing a casual quarter-zip sweatshirt over a t-shirt. The background shows a closet with clothes hanging and shelves with folded items.
Sun is out!!!
A man wearing a grey hoodie looks up into the night sky. A tree trunk is visible to his right.
My favorite quote from Weapons: “It’s a peculiarity of mine. I don’t even try to rationalize it anymore.“ The actress playing Aunt Gladys received an Oscar. She they will be making a prequel to her story
A man with short, bowl-cut hair and stubble poses for a selfie in a bathroom. He is wearing a white tank top and hoop earrings, with a tattoo visible on his shoulder.
Going to watch The testimony of Ann Lee today:) alone cause still no movie buddies. Should be an art house musical kind of thing😄
I just had a meaningful chat on Grindr with a guy. Not only were we flirty, open, and honest, but we also shared childhood stories, exchanged voice notes, and created a tragic storyline where we’ve secretly been in love with each other our whole lives but never told one another. Am I breaking the system???
A man with stubble and earbuds takes a selfie outdoors with a building and trees in the background. He is wearing a blue hooded sweatshirt.
Learning to look them in the eyes! And hold eye contact at least for a bit. Today I almost did with one guy at the gym. Excited where this takes me.
Men left me after they slept with me so many times. Sometimes brutally without any words. I was abounded so many times that I started to fetishize abandonment and neglect. How crazy is that. Abandon me after sleeping with me this is what I want 🤣 No. That’s not what I really want. Stay. Tell me I’m beautiful. Tell me you like me
I loved only once. It was that wild kind of love when you’re only content when he’s around. Or when he’s replying. Or when you’re anticipating time you will spend together. Healthy? Absolutely not. He had a girlfriend. But we still loved. Smelling his clothes would turn me on immediately. Would bring me joy better than any food or drugs. It was a drug on its own. Having him near me and feeling the touch of his buddy made me think that’s all I need in life. We could simply be caught in that moment forever and I would never ask for anything more. That moment, that touch, that warmth of our bodies was enough
A shirtless man takes a mirror selfie in a hotel bathroom. He is wearing underwear and has a tattoo on his arm.
In Bangkok this week
A shirtless man takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. He sticks his tongue out and flexes his body.
Being silly. The photo had to be cropped
I think I have just been shamelessly checked out in the most homophobic gym of Berlin McFIT Charlottenburg! The guy was flexing his abs in front of the mirror and looking at me. At this gym?! They hardly even change their underwear here it’s so homophobic! 😄 Afraid of the gays! 😆 kudos to this guy for breaking the system :)
“Do not sit here and judge us for how we process our trauma when you are the ones who traumatized us. Yes, maybe the homosexuals are a little bit too promiscuous in your eyes, bitch. Don't sit here and judge us for how we process the trauma that you put us through. Since we were children, you have told us that you don't see us, you don't respect us, you don't love us, and you don't want us to be who we are. So don't sit here now and try to tell us and shame us for how we choose to process the shit you put us through.” Lushious Massacr
A man poses shirtless in a bathroom, showing off his styled hair and a shoulder tattoo. The photo is a selfie, capturing a moment of self-expression.
So I just found out recently that people use styling powders these days. Gosh it’s so hard to keep up with these youngsters 😅 but it’s arrived and here’s my first try on doing something with it. It’s giving f*ggotry and I like it
A nighttime street scene with red lights illuminating the wet pavement. Fallen leaves and a building's exterior add to the urban atmosphere.
Love these beautiful evening lights and wet pavement. Let’s follow the cops back home and rob their hoses (Placebo)
The queer performance festival yesterday was awesome! Dancing, singing, stripping, joking and more
Boyberry in Berlin is not bad at all. Last night it was packed and there were quite some good looking guys. Some familiar faces too. In terms of crowd 25-45 yo it might be the best option in Schonenberg now? And I love me a darkroom too. It adds flirty sexy vibes to the place
A man takes a mirror selfie, shirtless, in a dressing room. He is wearing jeans and Calvin Klein underwear.
“Die My Love” 7/10. The ending is very strong. Jennifer Lawrence acting was so good.
A man takes a selfie in a mirror, sticking his tongue out. He wears a black jacket and a brown hoodie.
How these productive people manage to do everything. I want to go to the gym, go watch Die My Love in the cinema, read a book and watch drug race. Well and I need to finish work. But only half of this list will be accomplished
A nighttime cityscape with a full moon in the sky. People are walking across a crosswalk, and a restaurant is visible on the corner.
A selfie of a man with blonde hair and earrings. The man is looking directly at the camera.
Insert deep meaningful caption from ChatGPT here that should make others think I’m more than just a pretty face
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