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Jam (@jamthebigbear) - Collective Profile | London, GB Composer. queer pop songwriter, choir composer and adult content creator. links for all the fun stuff Follow @jamthebigbear on Instagram and @jamthebigbear on Twitter. Recent posts: a shirtless man in jeans stands in a stone circle on a grassy hilltop with rolling hills and a blue sky in the background., a man stands in a hotel hallway, taking a selfie with his phone. a suitcase is parked next to him., a man in a black leotard and athletic shoes dances on a stage under colorful neon lights and a disco ball. he is striking a pose with one arm raised, and the backdrop features a large neon 'm' logo., a man in his late 40s with a mustache and beard poses in a white crop top and light-wash jeans. he is looking at the camera with his hands in his pockets., a man with curly hair and a beard poses for a selfie. he is wearing a beanie and a t-shirt., a black and white photo of a shirtless man sitting at a table. he is smiling and looking at the camera., a man with a mustache and beard poses in a leather jacket. the background is blurred with streaks of light., a studio portrait of a man with a beard and dark hair. he is shirtless with his arms crossed., a man with a beard and chest hair poses shirtless in a studio. the photo is a close-up, with a dark background., a man smiles for a selfie while standing on a city street. he wears an orange t-shirt and has a beard and mustache., a man flexes his bicep in a mirror selfie. he is shirtless and wearing a yellow tank top., a man with a moustache takes a selfie in a mirror, lifting his t-shirt to show his belly. he is wearing shorts and sneakers., a man in a wrestling singlet with the words 'den beefmince' on it smiles at the camera. he has a beard and mustache and is standing in front of posters., a shirtless, muscular man sits on a grassy hillside in wales, looking out over a scenic landscape of rolling hills under a clear blue sky. he is wearing light-wash jeans and boots, with large rocks scattered around him., a muscular man with a mustache poses in light blue swimwear with a cartoon print. he is standing in a modern, minimalist outdoor lounge area with built-in seating., .
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Jam @jamthebigbear

queer pop songwriter, choir composer and adult content creator. links for all the fun stuff
London, GB
music
songwriting
queer pop
queer rights
A shirtless man in jeans stands in a stone circle on a grassy hilltop with rolling hills and a blue sky in the background.
Wholesome week in the Welsh mountains: stone circles, ancient mounds and farm boys.
A man stands in a hotel hallway, taking a selfie with his phone. A suitcase is parked next to him.
Hotels suck.
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Whatsup flabby butt. You look weird today. Sniff my pits.
A man in a black leotard and athletic shoes dances on a stage under colorful neon lights and a disco ball. He is striking a pose with one arm raised, and the backdrop features a large neon 'M' logo.
If the club asks you to go-go dance, say yes.
A man in his late 40s with a mustache and beard poses in a white crop top and light-wash jeans. He is looking at the camera with his hands in his pockets.
It’s taken three summers of watching boys wear crop tops to decide I finally want to wear one. I’m 47, I’ve never been an early adopter of fashion and most of my clothes are about 30 years old. Because you cannot buy style.
Having curly hair is fun one day, annoying the next, enviable another day, want to shave it off the next, it’s a whole thing.
A black and white photo of a shirtless man sitting at a table. He is smiling and looking at the camera.
Happy new year homos x
A man with a mustache and beard poses in a leather jacket. The background is blurred with streaks of light.
My feed and recs is only showing me muscly white boys with moustaches. How do I get to the fats, fems, bears and asians please?
A studio portrait of a man with a beard and dark hair. He is shirtless with his arms crossed.
A new photo. Of my head. And arms, to distract from the head. I'm 700 years old, so please just let me pretend I look like this OK? by Mascular Studio, London 2025
A man with a beard and chest hair poses shirtless in a studio. The photo is a close-up, with a dark background.
Sat for Mascular Studios last month. The shots are extraordinary, will be sharing the sfw ones. London 2025.
A man smiles for a selfie while standing on a city street. He wears an orange t-shirt and has a beard and mustache.
Do you sing in a choir? I’ve written new songs - protest songs, queer liberation LGBTQ+ protest songs and new choir works designed for trans voices. I’m looking for ways to get my songs in front of choir directors. Let me know if you can help.
A man flexes his bicep in a mirror selfie. He is shirtless and wearing a yellow tank top.
Lift sniff
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Butt
I am frightened of going to the USA. As a queer person of colour from the UK with a valid visa waiver etc, I have to travel there occasionally. And now I am having nightmares about immigration, authorities, ice etc and feeling sick from anxiety. Am I overreacting?
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Gaybrosgonemild
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Literally woke up like this. I love the hazy sun in my bedroom in the morning. Have a good week, handsome.
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I have a formal job as a concert pianist but thought I’d fk things up a bit with a mullet. You’d think it wouldn’t be a big deal but still not sure how my producer’s going to react.
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Have a good week, beautifuls
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Decided today that I love the little gap in my front teeth. It can stay.
Cheap hotels make me horny
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How many house renovations is expected of each homosexual? This is the seventh and I have a feeling it won’t be the last.
A man with a moustache takes a selfie in a mirror, lifting his t-shirt to show his belly. He is wearing shorts and sneakers.
This app suffers a severe lack of bellies
A man in a wrestling singlet with the words 'DEN BeefMince' on it smiles at the camera. He has a beard and mustache and is standing in front of posters.
Still not entirely sure what I’m meant to do on this platform. Everyone’s very far away and nobody seems like much fun in bed. Very earnest and wholesome. Anyway, hi.
A shirtless, muscular man sits on a grassy hillside in Wales, looking out over a scenic landscape of rolling hills under a clear blue sky. He is wearing light-wash jeans and boots, with large rocks scattered around him.
Wholesome week up a Welsh mountain to restore the balances.
A muscular man with a mustache poses in light blue swimwear with a cartoon print. He is standing in a modern, minimalist outdoor lounge area with built-in seating.
So I started doing my first promo stuff and not really sure if I’m doing it right. But I definitely like these swimmers from Den Loungewear. I have a10% discount on my links and everything. I’m a model now, mum.
A man with a mustache poses in a bedroom, flexing his bicep while wearing orange underwear and white socks.
Mess
A man takes a selfie while lying on a bed, shirtless and wearing underwear. The photo is taken in a bedroom setting.
A man takes a selfie, wearing a cap and headphones. He is shirtless, with a mustache and beard.
I was going for don’t talk to me unless you’re gonna 🧁 me. Worked well. Thrice.
A man in a red onesie sits in a chair. The photo is taken indoors.
Literally been in a onesie all weekend
A man is playing a keyboard and singing into a microphone on a stage. The image is dark, with the man illuminated by a spotlight.
Any other music producers or composers here? Looking for a lyrics collab for a protest song for a queer choir.
A moody headshot of a man with a beard and mustache, holding glasses. The photo is taken in a studio with a black background.
New moody daddy headshots by Mascular Studio. All the rest are too nsfw for here.
A man takes a mirror selfie in an elevator. He is wearing a black t-shirt and athletic shorts.
Thruviving and smiling. Just. Uploaded a bunch of fun vids on my fans pages 😁
A man stands shirtless in a narrow hallway, showcasing his muscular physique. He wears black shorts and sneakers.
First try at making shorts. Not terrible. Only three broken needles.
Get your face in there
Getting back to my hotel after a night out 22 March 2020. The next day covid entered all our lives, officially. Crazy times.
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I got arted by the lovely drawndudes on insta. Love it!
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Good morning. Have a great week, everyone.
So how was your easter? Do anything nice?
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Have a good weekend guapos
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Chonka bear in tiny play kitchen RAAAHHHH
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Come on, sunshine, warm these legs
If you wanna see me naked, I have a ton of fun stuff on OF & JFF. Link in bio or comments
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