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Jeff Sundheim (@jeff-sundheim) - Collective Profile | New York, US Recent posts: a man with a beard and stubble takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. he is wearing a black long-sleeved shirt, black shorts, and cowboy boots. a small plant sits on a shelf behind him., a dog with striking blue eyes peeks out from between a person's legs. the dog has black and white markings on its face and head, and the person is wearing shorts and white socks., a framed painting by claude monet, depicting a bridge over water in london. the artwork is in the impressionist style, with soft pastel colors., a close-up shot of the book "the amazing adventures of kavalier & clay" by michael chabon. the book cover is colorful and features a cityscape and a key., a man stands in front of a large painting in a museum. the painting depicts a park scene with people and a river., a man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his outfit. he wears a green sleeveless shirt, black jeans, and cowboy boots., a man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his outfit. he wears a cream-colored sweater with a yankees logo, a collared shirt, and dark jeans., a man lies in bed, taking a selfie. he is shirtless and has dark hair and a beard., a man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his denim-on-denim outfit. he is wearing a denim jacket and jeans, paired with a grey t-shirt and sneakers., a street scene with cars parked along the side of the road. the buildings are old and historic, with a variety of architectural styles., a person holds a copy of kurt vonnegut's "slaughterhouse-five." the book's cover is bright red with yellow text and a skull and crossbones graphic., a man takes a mirror selfie in his bedroom, shirtless. the room is a bit messy, with clothes and bags on the bed., a gallery wall featuring framed artwork, including drawings, paintings, and a deer head mount. the collection showcases a variety of styles and subjects., a street scene in new york city with cars, buildings, and a cloudy sky. the photo captures the urban environment and the flow of traffic., a man takes a selfie in a mirror, wearing a green leather jacket. the photo is a reference to the movie "the parent trap"., .
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A man with a beard and stubble takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. He is wearing a black long-sleeved shirt, black shorts, and cowboy boots. A small plant sits on a shelf behind him.
🌱❤️
A dog with striking blue eyes peeks out from between a person's legs. The dog has black and white markings on its face and head, and the person is wearing shorts and white socks.
Hi gay!
A framed painting by Claude Monet, depicting a bridge over water in London. The artwork is in the impressionist style, with soft pastel colors.
Monet giving London color
A close-up shot of the book "The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay" by Michael Chabon. The book cover is colorful and features a cityscape and a key.
“An ending is an arbitrary thing. An act of cowardice or fatigue, an expedient disguised as an aesthetic choice or, worse, a moral commentary on the finitude of life.” - Michael Chabon
A man stands in front of a large painting in a museum. The painting depicts a park scene with people and a river.
Well there are worse things than staring at a river on a Sunday
A man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his outfit. He wears a green sleeveless shirt, black jeans, and cowboy boots.
A man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his outfit. He wears a cream-colored sweater with a Yankees logo, a collared shirt, and dark jeans.
A man lies in bed, taking a selfie. He is shirtless and has dark hair and a beard.
A man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his denim-on-denim outfit. He is wearing a denim jacket and jeans, paired with a grey t-shirt and sneakers.
Denim denim denim
A street scene with cars parked along the side of the road. The buildings are old and historic, with a variety of architectural styles.
A person holds a copy of Kurt Vonnegut's "Slaughterhouse-Five." The book's cover is bright red with yellow text and a skull and crossbones graphic.
If you wanna challenge your worldview. This is the one.
A man takes a mirror selfie in his bedroom, shirtless. The room is a bit messy, with clothes and bags on the bed.
A gallery wall featuring framed artwork, including drawings, paintings, and a deer head mount. The collection showcases a variety of styles and subjects.
A street scene in New York City with cars, buildings, and a cloudy sky. The photo captures the urban environment and the flow of traffic.
A man takes a selfie in a mirror, wearing a green leather jacket. The photo is a reference to the movie "The Parent Trap".
My parent trap application
It’s been 7 years, *technically 9 since I’ve let someone in to see all of me. The good and the bad. Inquisitive. Present. Silly. anxious. worrier. Untrusting. Spontaneous. Emotional. Loyal. Men don’t usually make it past the silliness. Love is scary. Hope is a gift. When I fall for someone. It’s quick. But when I fall for someone. It’s rare. I’ve been single for 7 Years. Technically 9. It may become a decade before love re enters my life. I’m content in that. Because I’m ready. For 7 years, hopefully 9, hopefully until our time on earth ends.
A man takes a mirror selfie, framed by black bars. He's shirtless, wearing a striped tank top, and smiling at the camera.
A wooden table is set with a candle, a book, and an ashtray with a cigar. The scene evokes a sense of relaxation and a cozy atmosphere.
A person holds a copy of "Silver in the Wood" by Emily Tesh. The book's cover features an illustration of a face made of leaves and branches.
Otherworldly :)
A smiling couple takes a selfie outdoors. The man has a mustache and the woman has blonde hair.
A gay and a straight walk into a bar.
A man poses for a portrait, showcasing his stylish outfit. He wears a green jacket and a pink scarf.
A close-up shot of the book cover for "Table for Two" by Amor Towles. The cover features a black and white image of a couple at a table with drinks and a coffee cup, overlaid with the title and author's name in bold yellow lettering.
8/10. Romantic and poignant
A shirtless man with a red bandana around his neck poses in a doorway, looking into a mirror.
Hello there ;)
The cover of the book "The Correspondent" by Virginia Evans. Two birds are perched on wooden posts.
Remarkably moving.
A man smiles at the camera, wearing a military-style jacket and a white shirt. He has a beard and a necklace.
A man takes a selfie indoors. He is wearing a coat and has a mustache.
Home sweet home :)
A young man with curly brown hair is wearing a black t-shirt. The photo appears to be from the early 2000s.
Circa 2007. Troy bolton and I had a lot in common: basketball, musical theatre, beautiful girlfriend, gay af.
Ball me up
A man takes a mirror selfie, flexing his arm. He is wearing a black t-shirt and gray pants.
The fun guncle
A man poses in a mirror, wearing a stylish grey suit and black shirt. The photo captures a modern and fashionable look.
A man smiles for a selfie while wearing a green leather jacket. The photo is taken outdoors.
A man takes a mirror selfie, showcasing his outfit. He wears a stylish denim jacket with a unique design.
A close-up shot of the book "Hamnet" by Maggie O'Farrell. The book cover is a deep blue with gold lettering and illustrations.
Vivid. Tangible. Beautiful writing.
A low-angle shot captures the imposing facade of a tall apartment building against a bright blue sky dotted with clouds. The building's architectural details and the play of light and shadow create a visually interesting composition.
A vintage photo of a grandmother kissing a young child. The woman is wearing a blue swimsuit and the child is wearing swim trunks.
Grammy circa 1994
A man stands on a bus, smiling at the camera. He is wearing a white shirt and pants.
Love a bus
A man poses shirtless in a bedroom, wearing a white cap. The photo is a selfie, showcasing his physique and the interior design of the room.
A low-angle shot captures the towering buildings against a bright blue sky. The image highlights the modern architecture and urban landscape.
A street view in Hell's Kitchen, New York City, featuring a hotel and other buildings under a clear blue sky. Cars and traffic are visible on the road.
A rainbow crosswalk painted on a city street. The image captures a vibrant display of support for the LGBTQ+ community.
Men have made me laugh and cry. They’ve made me anxious in sleepless nights. Others have held me in restful slumbers. I have woken up to them with a smile on my face, content. I have woken up to them wondering how to relieve them from their hope for any sort of future with me. Some of these men have become my friends. Some of these men have become strangers. Others have become a knowing smile as we cross paths in the streets.
A view of several townhouses in New York City. One building is covered in ivy.
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