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Dave (@mambobean) - Collective Profile | Boston, US Writer, professor, always running around making the most of life Recent posts: a vibrant display of fall foliage in shades of orange and red against a clear blue sky. the leaves are dense, creating a full canopy of autumn color., a man poses for a full-body photo, wearing a cropped black jacket over a white shirt, a patterned scarf, and pinstripe pants. he is also wearing glasses and white sneakers., a performer, justin vivian bond, is seen on stage, bathed in dramatic lighting, singing into a microphone. the background features textured walls and subtle disco ball-like lights., a collage of six different cocktails, each served in unique glassware with ice and garnishes. the drinks range in color from pale yellow to deep amber, showcasing a variety of spirits and preparations., two elegantly presented cocktails and a third drink sit on a dark, reflective table in a dimly lit bar. the drink in the foreground is an amber-colored spirit with ice in a textured glass, while the other two are lighter in color and garnished with o, a woman with glasses and a black tank top sings into a microphone on a small stage in front of a neon sign that reads "dbar karaoke." the stage is lit with pink and red lights, and a microphone stand is positioned to her right., a smiling, elderly caucasian man with glasses and a baseball cap holds a large platter of fresh oysters on the half shell. he is seated outdoors on a porch with a wooden railing and a window behind him., a man with glasses smiles at the camera in front of a cemetery with colorful fall foliage and gravestones., a wide shot of a concert arena bathed in blue light. a large circular stage is visible in the center, surrounded by a massive crowd of concert-goers. a screen above the stage shows a silhouette of a performer., two cocktails are displayed side-by-side on a metallic bar top. the cocktail on the left is a bright orange drink in a coupe glass, garnished with four small red spheres. the cocktail on the right is a golden-brown liquid in a stemmed glass, resting, a vibrant and detailed mural of a woman's face is painted on a brick wall. the artwork features intricate patterns and calligraphy surrounding the subject's head and flowing down her shoulders., a man with glasses stands in front of a stone wall, wearing a white denim jacket with a black abstract pattern over a white t-shirt and black pants. he has his hands in his pockets and is looking at the camera with a slight smile., a graphic displays "london" with the union jack flag, "visiting for 2 days", and the dates "sep 12" and "sep 13" with an airplane icon., a man with glasses smiles broadly while looking off to the side. he is wearing a white unbuttoned shirt, a black jacket, and black pants, with his hands in his pockets..
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Dave @mambobean

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A vibrant display of fall foliage in shades of orange and red against a clear blue sky. The leaves are dense, creating a full canopy of autumn color.
Nature for the win.
The first time someone called me “daddy” in bed, it took me out so hard because I’m an actual dad. In recent years, most of the guys who reach out to me are younger, and I’ve gotten used to hearing them say “age is just a number,” a line that used to go the other way when I was growing up. The openness of “daddy” culture is a real sea change. I’m working on a book about this now and would love to know: If you’re drawn to daddies, what is it that attracts you? When did this start? When you pursue age-gap relationships, do you feel accepted by others? What do you wish more people understood about all this? Share your thoughts!
A man poses for a full-body photo, wearing a cropped black jacket over a white shirt, a patterned scarf, and pinstripe pants. He is also wearing glasses and white sneakers.
Fit check for #harrystyles Together Together at MSG
Whenever, wherever Justin Vivian Bond performs, that’s where you should be.
A collage of six different cocktails, each served in unique glassware with ice and garnishes. The drinks range in color from pale yellow to deep amber, showcasing a variety of spirits and preparations.
Six great cocktails from my London trip: Oaky at Kwãnt Mayfair, Hush Money at Satan’s Whiskers, Temptation at Scarfes Bar, The Bramble at Three Sheets, The Polaire at Crazy Coqs & Somerset Negroni at Town.
Two elegantly presented cocktails and a third drink sit on a dark, reflective table in a dimly lit bar. The drink in the foreground is an amber-colored spirit with ice in a textured glass, while the other two are lighter in color and garnished with o
Trifecta is an undersung hero of Boston cocktail scene. (Which means I can always score a seat)
A woman with glasses and a black tank top sings into a microphone on a small stage in front of a neon sign that reads "dbar Karaoke." The stage is lit with pink and red lights, and a microphone stand is positioned to her right.
A smiling, elderly Caucasian man with glasses and a baseball cap holds a large platter of fresh oysters on the half shell. He is seated outdoors on a porch with a wooden railing and a window behind him.
A man with glasses smiles at the camera in front of a cemetery with colorful fall foliage and gravestones.
Fall hits perfectly in New England
Harry Styles knows how to throw a party
Two cocktails are displayed side-by-side on a metallic bar top. The cocktail on the left is a bright orange drink in a coupe glass, garnished with four small red spheres. The cocktail on the right is a golden-brown liquid in a stemmed glass, resting
New favorite bar in NYC? schmuck. One on-menu drink, one bespoke—they crushed it with both.
A vibrant and detailed mural of a woman's face is painted on a brick wall. The artwork features intricate patterns and calligraphy surrounding the subject's head and flowing down her shoulders.
Street art, Brick Lane.
A man with glasses stands in front of a stone wall, wearing a white denim jacket with a black abstract pattern over a white t-shirt and black pants. He has his hands in his pockets and is looking at the camera with a slight smile.
A little pattern never hurt nobody
A graphic displays "London" with the Union Jack flag, "Visiting for 2 days", and the dates "Sep 12" and "Sep 13" with an airplane icon.
Let’s grab a cocktail and/or dance
A man with glasses smiles broadly while looking off to the side. He is wearing a white unbuttoned shirt, a black jacket, and black pants, with his hands in his pockets.
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