The first time someone called me “daddy” in bed, it took me out so hard because I’m an actual dad. In recent years, most of the guys who reach out to me are younger, and I’ve gotten used to hearing them say “age is just a number,” a line that used to go the other way when I was growing up. The openness of “daddy” culture is a real sea change. I’m working on a book about this now and would love to know: If you’re drawn to daddies, what is it that attracts you? When did this start? When you pursue age-gap relationships, do you feel accepted by others? What do you wish more people understood about all this? Share your thoughts!