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Alastair James @mralastairjames

30-something trying to figure things out

I found this on Pinterest. Unfortunately, there wasn’t an artist’s name attached.

This is kind of how I feel right about now

Oh, he knew what he was doing here

It’s too much 🔥

James Dean and Paul Newman in a screen test for East of Eden

James Dean and Paul Newman in a screen test for East of Eden

First piece up at @heavyferal https://www.heavyferal.com/news/heliasdoulisexclusive/

Yesterday’s fit

Nicholas Alexander Chavez for Jacquemus

Nicholas Alexander Chavez for Jacquemus

I could do with some advice! I’ve got a friend who I’ve had some issues with. We met while I was looking for a room in 2022 and ended up living together for nearly two years. It was great to start with but then over time we had our issues from small things like washing up to bigger things like him lying to me constantly and generally eroding my trust in him. There was more drama earlier this year that led to an honest conversation. After more time apart we were in a good place. However, in the last week it feels like we’ve gone backwards. I’m pretty sure he’s been lying to me, he’s once again proven I can’t trust him, and he made some crass comments during a night out on Saturday. I’ve spent the last few days feeling quite angry. Considering everything I’m at the end of my rope. I just don’t have any trust in him or think that he genuinely cares for or respects me. I’ve never had to cut a friend out of my life as I’m considering doing though I’m wary of doing that. It feels very dramatic! And I feel if I do that I should explain myself rather than not say anything at all. Or is it better to just draw the line and walk away? What do people think?

I enjoyed my first proper go at Hollinghurst. Oe to go back and read the others!

I need this t-shirt

Sometimes I wish I could be snapped walking around town in these cute looks I keep pulling together

Someone said I was giving Josh O’Connor with this look and I’m fine with that 😁

Forever one of my favourite artists and one of the greatest showmen 💖

Mentally, I’m here rn

Jacob Elordi at the Venice Film Festival

Chris Evans providing a reason to go see Honey Don’t

“It is only with the heart that one sees rightly: what is essential is invisible to the eye”

Enjoying the bank holiday

I’ve picked up some work at the Boys! Boys! Boys! Gallery Café in London. If you’re around, pop in and say hi 👋 💖

This picture does things to me

New (dark green, not black) shorts. What do we think?

I couldn’t help but by this vintage leather 60/70s holdall

“Are you going to serve it today hunty? Or are you going to be a fierce divalicious hunty?”

Sometimes I wish I could be a himbo. They seem like they have it good.