Where can I buy a mesh top that isn’t going to break my bank, I get £10 an hour and really cannot be affording an £100 mesh shirt. Anyone got any suggestions for where to go?
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fouvey
@filipe. Hahaha. I have been trying believe me but I cannot find anywhere that pays more that I can get to as I can’t afford a car with this job 🤣🤣🤣 it’s a vicious cycle really.
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fouvey
@chlopiecy uk minimum wage for 18 year olds is £10. I get minimum wage.
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fouvey
Yeah pretty much. £7.55 for 16 yr olds.
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VINTED warrior right here - literally anything from vinted, you get more unique, avoid directly supporting brands that don’t pay their workers a living wage, sustainable, all around bonus!!
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fouvey
@lilyella ok. I will redownload. I had to delete it after realising I was spending more money because I am literally a bargain addict.
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@fouvey oopsies i am the same - i’m now logged into my mum’s vinted account and we sell stuff on it together, so the for you page isn’t catered to me! i’d recommend deleting after you get the mesh top tho haha, cuz i rabbit hole so hard too
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fouvey
@lilyella hahah that’s such an intelligent way to go about it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@fouvey i’ve accepted i cannot be trusted and that’s okay hahaha - it’s all the better once you accept + delete
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but fr why is gay-wear so friggin’ pricey
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fouvey
Frrrrr I’m not paying £45 for a fucking thong. Why is it priced like that
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lav
Try Depop
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colee
Buy off shein they are soooo cheap🤗
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@colee there’s a reason their stuff is so cheap… smh, at least buy it 2nd hand i beg - they don’t pay their workers literally anything, and you’re just contributing to fast fashion cycles even more
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jamie98
Asos do some good ones
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colee
@lilyella okay lily💀everything I’ve bought there looks soooo good on me so I say shein is good
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fouvey
@colee you know the people buying cotton in 18th century America would have said the exact same thing about the cotton companies.
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colee
@fouvey well luckily we are in 2025 and it’s just clothes that are cheap
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fouvey
@colee 🤦. I mean it’s the same situation. People are being forced to work highly unreasonable hours and get paid little to no money for their time. I use my buying power in ways that avoids funding slave labour. I apologise for making a historical reference out of your reach I forgot to check where you are from before mentioning the darker side of americas past as we both know it won’t be mentioned much in textbooks over there. Slave labour, genocide and all these other nasties we see in the pst have not magically disappeared because it’s the 21st century. I try and avoid funding them. Do your research. FURTHERMORE the clothes are all fast fashion. They are designed to break and be bought again. And as someone who cares deeply about the prospect of actually having a future I refuse to buy fast fashion as much as I possibly can afford to. Fast fashion is just more plastic that lands on beaches, landfills, the ocean, and highly toxic and polluting burnings. Sorry if this has come across as rude but I get very heated about topics like this and considering the direction the world is currently heading in I think that it is quite valid. I did a speech on the effects on microplastics not all that long ago and so I worry about the plastic levels of the world’s water quite a lot, as I know the extent of the damage they can do.
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colee
@fouvey well you seem fun at parties!!! It’s clothes it’s not that deep- who cares about the past we are living in the present now get over yourself
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fouvey
@colee IM NOT TALKING ABOUT THE PAST. IM SAYING ITS A MODERN DAY ISSUE. AND THIS ISNT A PARTY. god almighty the American education system is quite… interesting. People are being used as slaves AS WE SPEAK and that is what brands like shein and temp are built on. Plastics are ravaging our planet NOW. Not in the past. I wouldn’t be worrying if it was in the past. And it is that deep. If you are so void of empathy and care that you are a ok to be funding modern day slavery than go for it. You’ll just be another tick on the long list of lost causes. But I’m not void of empathy and I don’t like funding it. funding MODERN.. SLAVERY. I don’t know how much clearer I can make that for you.
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@fouvey THANK YOU bc i was literally dreaming about this and was really wanting to pop off - cuz it really isn’t ‘just clothes’, say that to the landfills filled with clothing, right next to food packaging - it’s all plastic, it’s all the same to the landfill! except we can prevent fast fashion waste SO much easier than food packaging and other types of production waste. At least w food that’s a literal continuous need, and an expendable resource. The way fast fashion has people thinking about clothing is basically the same! But we have so much clothing on this planet, enough to clothe the next 6 generations. @colee i do beg you do a bit of research, and recommend the sustainability brand checker ‘Good on You’ to look for better alternatives! (they also filter by price if that’s an obstacle, but 2nd hand will always be cheaper, and usually better quality!)
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@colee can tell you the kind of party i want to be at is one where this is a discussion, so don’t feel bad @fouvey , just cuz you’ve been surrounding yourself with likeminded passionate people 🫶🫶
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fouvey
@lilyella thank fuck for that #thoughtiwasgoingmad I mean I definitely am but it’s not the point
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@fouvey THANK U 4 popping off, i felt seen 💅
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@fouvey oh no no dw - when you’ve surrounded yourself w the right kind of people for long enough, this tends to happen when meeting/interacting w new people who are not on the sustainable 2nd hand vibe 🤷‍♀️ (thank u for saying something first)
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