Stop putting people on a pedestal just because they have a 6-pack, are “popular,” or would look good on your Instagram. Treat people as people—equally, with respect. People are not trophies, nor should they be treated like royalty because they fit male stereotypes. Everyone chooses their lifestyle, there are no rights or wrongs. I have been hurt more in the past year than when I was a wallflower. Some people can obsess over you, doing unthinkable things against your will.