Might be a crazy question but if you break up and you both hate being... - Alex (@alextric) • Collective

alextric 6 months

Might be a crazy question but if you break up and you both hate being apart is it wrong? ( it was mutual but we know the reason) it hurts 😭

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bald

Real talk, if you know it was for a good reason it’s probably the codependency talking. Give yourself some more time to adjust (it’ll be hard but worth it)

6 months

alextric

@bald I appreciate you responding I figured it’s just different

6 months

hidden

It’s actually part of the process of withdrawal. Painful af but then it’s gone

1 month

alextric

_jacobsen yea it’s been 5 months now still feel it from time to time it sucks we share a lot of the same friends I still remain caring but he get and cold it’s a lot at times if we connect bill tell you more😞

1 month

hidden

@alextric I understand. Everyone has different ways to deal with heartbreaks, and it’s not a competition. What matters is what’s important to you and what’s the best way for you to navigate the separation. It will inevitably contemplate breakups and change of routines , but there’s space for new things too. Best of luck!

1 month

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