I already went on at least 3 dates and no sparks were lit up.
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WYM at least tho. Did you go on a half date? Haha
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@bratzboygee damn that sucks. So at that point do you end the date early or keep it going cause you’re lowkey stuck?
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@bratzboygee you are too nice… If I don’t feel sparks or a pivot to friendzone I would end the date, but respectfully as possible.
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something i’ve been thinking about for some time now is if i’m supposed to be looking for sparks still… or do i develop a friendship first then date… idk anymore
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@psychedelicprince this is complicated for me. I was talking to a guy, after our 2nd date he said let’s be friends. I obliged. 4 months later he tries to make a pass - which caught me off guard. I said “but it thought we were friends?” He said “I wanted to become friends first”. WHAT? After 4 months, I had started dating someone else. Was I supposed to wait? So I ended the friendship. I felt he was playing games.
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