What is a queerplatonic relationship?

Does your connection with your bestie feel more on a soulmate level than just friendship, without any desire to date them? If so, lucky you! You may be experiencing queerplatonic attraction, which can form the basis of long-term relationships that are just as meaningful and emotionally supportive as romantic partnerships. Understanding the term The term queerplatonic relationship, or QPR, originated in the asexual community as a way to describe relationships that were deeper than friendship but non-romantic or non-sexual (depending on the person). Today, the term is defined as a significant emotional relationship that transcends the traditional boundaries of friendship, without the pressures of romantic dating. Some QPRs are non-sexual, but still incorporate physical intimacy like hand-holding and cuddling. Each relationship is tailored to the needs of the people involved, with no outside societal guidelines to follow, letting you define it on your own terms. Why QPRS are important QPRs prove that non-romantic connections are just as enriching, and challenge the notion that romantic connections should be considered the most valuable. They offer stability, emotional support, and a unique closeness that allows for personal growth outside the tricky navigations of romantic love. And most importantly, queerplatonic relationships teach us to prioritize and make time for all the different types of love in our lives. After all, Carrie’s soulmate wasn’t ever Mr. Big, it was her girls!