I know I am shouting into a void here but I just need somewhere to shout. I have spent the last three days helping to care for a dear loved one in the hospital. She is dying of cancer. She has made such a beautiful impact on my life and seeing her this way is so hard. She likely only has days left. I have so much that I want to say to her but I don’t know how.
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pigeonboy
Sending you strength in every moment 💜
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antonionline
Going through this is never easy… but remember that if they have limited time, they will want to hear everything they can before they go. Stories, memories, emotions. Sure, it can remind them that life is almost up, but it will also remind them that they’ve made an impact on someone else’s life. If they are able, bring them some of their favourite foods, and talk to them as you would your best friend. Food and stories are a great combo as well.
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lotusgirl
Been here… I’m so sorry ♥️ it helped me to write down everything I wanted to say and read it, but also know your loving presence is felt and means so much to them. Music also helps as a way to be present together.. I played meaningful songs and listened to them with my parents in the final days and it was hard but beautiful xx
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Exactly what @antonionline said! Pour your heart out to this person; people tend to be really receptive of other people’s energy as well! Sending you lots of strength and peace during this time! 🙏🏾❤️
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fizzly
Try writing it down just to organize your thoughts! Wishing you peace and healing ❤️
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philmonteiro
You're there for her. You've said all that is important, just being there. Just say that you love her, give her all the love she deserves and make her laugh. :)
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