A selfie of two men in front of a red covered bridge. The man on the right has a goatee and is wearing a black t-shirt. The man on the left has long, reddish-brown hair, glasses, and a mustache, and is wearing a black and white baseball tee.

Husband (right) and I (left) are both heavier people. I made this account to hopefully make some new queer friends. I am only here for friends, as our marriage is monogamous and he is the love of my life. But…I was adding some people and i observed something really off putting. While adding people in the “non-binary” and “women” categories, there was a large assortment of different looks, body types, and presentations. However, looking through the men and every single one is shirtless with a 6 pack and short hair. Where’s the diversity guys? Why do you all look exactly the same?

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beckthewordnerd
It definitely feels odd to be one of the only big men I’ve found on this app so far, and I feel like I only half-count since I’m AFAB 😂 😂 Hopefully we find our people!
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