Call him in, not out, and have a real sit-down convo about how it makes YOU feel. You ultimately need to put yourself first and won’t be able to ever change someone who’s not willing but if this is someone you care for/love then IMO deserves having a serious talk. I’ve never met someone going through substance abuse that didnt begin with emotional/mental health issues ✌️ take care

Make your point. If nothing changes, wish him luck and move on.

Whatever you do, don't join in! ❤️

thanks for the advice guys - honestly i just want to block him out of my head, wish me luck in my new breakup healing process

@mellamoprimo well, if you're breaking up, don't just block him of your head, but from your whole life. A maybe is a no. Mixed signs are a no. Believe me - I've been there, not for the same reason, but I regret the waste of energy and time with someone that wasn't giving a fuck to me or to what we had.