to all of us, as a twink or a feminine gay (by ppls assumption) im tryna find true love on bunch of dating apps — while that moment i met many ppl who nice to me or even mean ppl who judge me bc of me being fem gay; called me a slut who dress to impress the men — it made me fear to wear girly outfits and loss my direction of myself for a while — so this post isnt blaming em but i just wanna empower you guys to be youself not depends on anyones opinion.