fridi105

I know it can be tough because so much of gay socializing is often based around bars and clubs, but I’m sure you’ll meet some amazing people if you’re up to it.

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aloic

I rarely go out to party as I get easily overwhelmed and I'm very picky on the music. Never really been great with meaningless hookups either. Don't really get anything out of that as I much prefer to have some level of connection before doing anything. So I get you❤️

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sqnutkin

For what it’s worth, I don’t think you’re alone in feeling alienated by gay hookup culture! For some it works fine it seems but for others it doesn’t feel so healthy or safe enough? I also think apps channel us into presenting a certain stance but often when you do meet with guys, they also want emotional connection too

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olegs

All the things that you have achieved and described are huge green flags. I am genuinely amazed and proud of you (and a bit jealous :)) I believe it just takes time to find someone who is not like others and is capable of seeing these awesome parts of you and your lifestyle.

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justindr

You are certainly not alone. I have felt the same way, for a lot of my life, but I have learnt in recent years that there are so many queer groups out there that find common ground on a particular interest. Run clubs, sports groups, car gays etc so many things that I am working up the courage to give a go. Search locally, even Facebook for groups you might find common interest with. Might find your ppl 🫶🏻

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lav

Not alone bud, there’s plenty of guys that would be willing to be just friends all you have to do is set boundaries if they respect the they are worth your time if they don’t f em.

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nesh07

Oh god I thought I was the only one and was worrying

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deepdrew

Babe. You got this! Have you tried to play with any queer sports teams or join any clubs? Maybe this would lead to finding more community and connection. Keep investing in you heart and spirit and nothing will lead you astray ❤️

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jacob2002

I’m out for 5 years, single for 4 years and have Similar feelings

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samy84

Feeling is mutual they dont like me because im not beautiful same as they are but its ok i have my friends who accept me for who i am thats why your not alone just stay what you are and one day someone will see who you are for real. 😊😊😊

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