Men doing the slow fade after saying to go on a second date is one of the most irritating things. If you just wanted a fuck, say that, I am a big boy. Happy to call it that and leave it there - call a spade a spade. Trying to organise with someone inconsistent is like pulling teeth and I for one am not playing that game. First dates are for establishing whether you want to go on a second date. It’s not about wanting them to like me, it’s me figuring out if I like them. Don’t self-abandon by giving your worth determination to someone else. Next