Right now just trying to find my self, some tips for the best way to find it? ✨✨✨
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juanda
I’m no expert, but the moment I started accepting my life as it is, I stopped looking, comparing, and trying to be someone I wasn’t. Just be yourself now—it’s all that matters. It’s okay if you don’t have all the answers; they’ll come to you in time. ✨
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don’t wait for them to come to you!! go out and explore, spend time with friends, old and new, work on your hobbies…only in these moments when you find out exactly who you are and who you will be
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josainlove
@juanda It’s weird because the only person I compare myself to is the person I was in the past. Now I know that I don’t feel the same although I would like to feel just as happy as before but without being the same person. I don’t know what I said but I hope the idea is explained. Anyways thanks for your beautiful words
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juanda
@josainlove That’s it! Comparison is an act of violence toward ourselves. It’s how we tell ourselves that we’re not enough, even when we’re comparing ourselves to who we were at another time. This is why accepting yourself as you are right now will help bring you peace. Slowly, you’ll start finding the right ways to lift yourself up.
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hoito8
It’s all inside of you, and stop looking just listen 🫶
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