i was head over heels for this guy i was talking to until he told me we had to “be discreet” so his partner didn’t find out. i really don’t see how he thought i would be agreeable to that. i told him that it would require me betraying his partner and myself. he said sorry and i told him that i was sorry for his partner and he blocked me. was he very hot? yes, but what do i look like degrading myself to second place to be with someone who can’t even respect who they’re dating like ugh. i hope what i said got to him