What are the red flags you can spot right away on a first date? 🚩
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j-inlondon
β€œHow much do you earn? πŸ˜‚
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jamie98
How they treat people
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nahdire
Keep looking at / using their phone or watch
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fouvey
Excessive compliments and shows of affection I.e saying I love you too early. CLASSIC case of love bombing.
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fouvey
@thegingertwink it’s generally in the earliest stages of the conversation, date, ect. And it quickly ramped up. And there is giving lots of compliments and giving excessive compliments. Very different things. Love bombing is a tactic used to make the victim feel that they are obliged to do something later or to create an emotional debt OR to charm the victim into a false sense of security.
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