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AJ Blackwell (@southerncowrie) - Collective Profile | Islip Terrace, US Whimsy Curator. Like lemon juice in an open wound, it’s about to get real...and maybe even refreshing Follow @aj_blackwell on Instagram. Recent posts: a man in a bright pink bikini bottom and a headband takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. he has a mustache and a tattoo on his left thigh., a nighttime street scene shows a group of people gathered outside a building with colorful lights and balloons. a digital sign displays "knicks stop: the finals"., a woman with her eyes closed and mouth open in a joyful expression, clapping her hands. the text at the bottom reads 'thank you, lord!'., a yu-gi-oh! spell card titled 'minding my own business' features an image of a man mowing his lawn while several police cars are parked on the street behind him. the card's text reads, 'use this card to mind your own business.', a man with an afro and mustache takes a selfie in a bathroom. he is wearing a long-sleeved, off-the-shoulder shirt and light-wash jeans., a television screen displays lyrics for a song, with the text "and it feels like ooh but you don't know my name" prominently featured. the screen is set against a backdrop of a living room, with shelves holding figurines visible above the tv., a person's head is shown from the side, with their thick hair being styled with a scarf. the focus is on the texture and volume of the hair as it interacts with the accessory., a chalk-written poem on a sidewalk asks, "can we still fall in love this summer?" the shadow of a person and their feet are visible in the foreground., an art installation features two mannequins dressed in black hooded robes, facing a third mannequin that appears to be an anatomical model with exposed organs. the figures stand on a polished wooden floor in what looks like a gallery or museum space., a woman in a detailed, ornate outfit walks down a hallway bathed in warm, golden light. the hallway features classic architectural details like wainscoting and framed artwork on the walls., a close-up shot of a black woman's voluminous afro hairstyle, showcasing its natural texture and beauty., a man in yellow swimwear and sunglasses poses in a pool with a thatched-roof bar and lounge chairs in the background., a woman with purple hair covers her face with her hand in a meme-like reaction. the image is a meme template., beyonce performs on stage in a stunning outfit. the image showcases her as a singer and performer., a woman with a large, bright green feathered hat stands behind a dj setup, reaching out her hand. a disco ball hangs above, reflecting light, and a man smiles in the background. the scene appears to be at an outdoor music event with stage lighting., .
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AJ Blackwell @southerncowrie

Like lemon juice in an open wound, it’s about to get real...and maybe even refreshing
Islip Terrace, US
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A man in a bright pink bikini bottom and a headband takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom. He has a mustache and a tattoo on his left thigh.
Island time
A nighttime street scene shows a group of people gathered outside a building with colorful lights and balloons. A digital sign displays "Knicks stop: The Finals".
GO KNICKS, BUT Devin Vassell hit my line
Twirl that ass like you came up out the South girl
Any and all book recs welcome!! Drop them in the comments please😚
A Yu-Gi-Oh! spell card titled 'Minding My Own Business' features an image of a man mowing his lawn while several police cars are parked on the street behind him. The card's text reads, 'Use this card to mind your own business.'
This card is always activated within my life
I’ve decided to wear shirts that cut low until my tiddies grow
Name that song🙂‍↔️ karaoke night really lets me know who the R&B girlies are
I forget how thick my hair is until I go to put on one of my cute scarves, but girl we persevere and make it happen
A chalk-written poem on a sidewalk asks, "Can we still fall in Love this summer?" The shadow of a person and their feet are visible in the foreground.
An art installation features two mannequins dressed in black hooded robes, facing a third mannequin that appears to be an anatomical model with exposed organs. The figures stand on a polished wooden floor in what looks like a gallery or museum space.
My friend’s approaching me asking if I have a joint in my purse
Just saw The Fifth Element for the first time. Two things: Chris Tucker has never not made me laugh AND learned that Jean Paul Gaultier did the costume designer
Fierce is fierce. That’s the long and short of it
I love my afro. Like I love my cornrows, but the afro…baby she is the crown, the grande dame, the moment.
Just saw these parents taking turns answering their 3 year olds million questions, warmed my heart.
A man in yellow swimwear and sunglasses poses in a pool with a thatched-roof bar and lounge chairs in the background.
open the pools. pour the mezcalita. put on your sunnies. Alexa, play Yoga by Janelle Monáe
Just got the pictures from a photoshoot I did last month, shared them with friends and we all cried😭 the support from them has been so lovely. Modeling as a side quest was not on my 2026 bingo card but yay
A woman with purple hair covers her face with her hand in a meme-like reaction. The image is a meme template.
Listening to Don’t Forget by Demi Lovato for the first time in a long time. Demetria’s breath support has always been there aaaah
Beyonce performs on stage in a stunning outfit. The image showcases her as a singer and performer.
Jill Scott made this album for me!
Ordered 3 new speedos, thank yall again for the suggestions. When they get here…you’ll know🤭
Chaka Khan released a new song! I repeat, Chaka Khan has released a new song!
DJ Bridge is so fly
So all the Greek/Roman gods were just cruising and petty. Like they would just become humans “to be amongst us” but end up sleeping with someone almost everytime or getting their lick back on someone
I WILL send a voice memo, trust
Cool down is one of my favorite songs from Ari Lennox’s album
Mei Mei’s little brother in JJK reminds of the lil gay boy from School of Rock
What even is there to do in Boston? I’m being serious, bc I’ve only ever known Boston for the Italian baked goods and very racist cops
It bothers me so much both on a personal & professional level that some people have weaponized therapy speak to excuse their behavior or the behavior of others. Not everything is a boundary. Not everyone is a narcissist. Attachment styles aren’t fixed, they’re meant to change. Neurodivergence exists on a spectrum, having special interests isn’t the sole basis of neurodivergence. Relationships work because people want them to. They don’t work when they don’t (assuming consent and agency of course). Holding someone accountable is different than punishing someone.
Should I watch Princess Mononoke or Homecoming?
Hello sharks, I’m asking for $1.5 billion so that I can travel the world to experience the spectrum of the art, fashion, and culinary worlds as well as investing in local community-based programs that directly benefit the populations they claim to. I’d also like the best eater you got🤗
A cartoon illustration of a Black woman with her hair in a bun and wearing a patterned headwrap. She has an annoyed expression on her face.
A friend back home just called me to tell me that her husband (genuinely a great human being, honestly no notes) is considering become a fucking sheriff’s deputy. Bitch I’m sick
A woman walks down a suburban street at night, illuminated by a street light. A car is parked on the side of the road.
Temp is rising eeeeee
A man with an afro and mustache smiles as he wears a colorful, patchwork cardigan over a sheer black mesh top.
Fact: I’m always talking to the photographer when I should be posing during test shots
If I send you ✨🙂‍↔️✨, this is what it means (even though Aisha is my gworl)
A person stands with their back to the camera, wearing shiny silver pants and a black top adorned with purple and white flowers. The person holds out the fabric of their top, creating a dramatic, wing-like effect.
It feels so good to be aliiiiiive
A man in a yoga pose, shirtless with flowers around his waist. The image has a modern, artistic aesthetic.
twist
Raise your hand if you’ve seen They Cloned Tyrone
“Girl, fuck you” or “Please go to hell” is my fav response to any inconvenience or disrespect.
A screenshot of a text message expressing a negative opinion about straight people. The message is overlaid on a dark background.
This was said during one of our staff meetings the other day and I’m still recovering
Contrary to popular belief, I do believe in getting my lick back. In true Gemini fashion, there’s going to be one warning and if you don’t listen to it…everything after will be truly your fault.
“Pop my butt, pop pop my butt” makes me cackle every time
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