Anselm (@anselm) • Collective gay friends app

Anselm @anselm

📍Berlin 🇩🇪🇬🇧 I have a passion for music, food and being kind. Empathy can safe lives. Open to new connections.

Queer men: What makes a guy really attractive?

I was only 20 here! This was right before a really good couple dance session. Also ... the outfit is questionable ...

What’s the gayest holiday destination ever ??

I try to stay out of the sun as much as possible but golden hour is irresistible to me.

Do you guys feel lovely sometimes? How do you deal with it?

First time doing drag! What do you think? Feel free to give me tips :)

Queers: What’s a no go in your friendship?

Hot people make me mad

When anyone inconveniences me I pull out the “so you hate gays” card.

I really DO look good in light blue ...

Queers: What luxury item will you be buying in 2025?

Trans rights are human rights!

Being apolitical in this day and age is certainly a (privileged) choice...

Me when I‘m a cat in a flower pot with a 10/10 face card

What’s the gayest costume idea for Halloween ?

Dear Queers, Do we like the iOS 26 or not?

Kindness is strength. Empathy can safe lives.

Should I get the gold ring with the emerald ?

People who throw their cigarettes on the ground are 🤡

What’s one queer joy, experience, or piece of culture you think everyone should experience at least once and why?

Anyone up for a round of chess? I downloaded the app for a friend of mine and now I can’t stop. Hit me up if you want to connect and play. You’re very likely to win ;)

My Berlin queers: What’s your fav bar /hangout that you can recommend?

Is anyone getting the new iPhone 17 ?

If you have more love handles you’re designed to handle more love! 🩷🩷🩷

POV: The shady person at the party offers me a drink (jokes on you, I don’t go out)

Do you like oysters? The experience itself is really unique and exciting. It's not something to be eaten in masses tho. I can't shake the feeling that it only has this "high class" status because of the scarcity. It's honestly a bit overrated. 5/10

Good Morning Collective, Fresh off the bus and already slightly overwhelmed by the possibilities. Gotta drop my stuff off at my new profile and see how this all works. Nice to meet you all Anselm