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Carsen (@greenroomgeek) - Collective Profile | Bellwood, US Front end web developer. Richmond, VA based. Bit of a musical theatre nerd. I also like board games and scary movies. Follow @carsenyoung on Instagram. Recent posts: a couple kisses in front of a castle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by guests and floating bubbles. the couple is dressed in renaissance-inspired attire., a man and woman in colorful, historical costumes dance together on a stage. the man wears a green and pink jacket with gold accents, while the woman is in a flowing pink gown and a white veil., a smiling gay couple takes a selfie on a rocky coastline with the ocean and a cloudy blue sky in the background., a man stands between two large stones at stonehenge, a prehistoric monument in england. he is wearing a black leather jacket, blue jeans, and grey shoes, with a clear blue sky overhead., a couple feeds a group of deer in a park setting. the man on the left wears a yellow yukata, while the man on the right wears a patterned yukata., a man in a patterned shirt and brown pants is center stage, pointing at the camera with a smile. behind him, a group of people in various costumes stand on risers, illuminated by colorful stage lights..
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Carsen @greenroomgeek

Richmond, VA based. Bit of a musical theatre nerd. I also like board games and scary movies.
Bellwood, US
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A couple kisses in front of a castle during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by guests and floating bubbles. The couple is dressed in Renaissance-inspired attire.
My wedding, 2023
Photo by greenroomgeek
Italy, 2024
A man and woman in colorful, historical costumes dance together on a stage. The man wears a green and pink jacket with gold accents, while the woman is in a flowing pink gown and a white veil.
Once Upon a Mattress, 2025
A smiling gay couple takes a selfie on a rocky coastline with the ocean and a cloudy blue sky in the background.
San Juan Island, WA. 2026
A man stands between two large stones at Stonehenge, a prehistoric monument in England. He is wearing a black leather jacket, blue jeans, and grey shoes, with a clear blue sky overhead.
Stonehenge, 2019
I’m old enough to be dead in gay years and very happily married so maybe I have some life experience that might be worth passing on based on the posts I read here. I see lots and lots of people lamenting the fact that they can’t find their soulmate. I empathize and I get it, but I want to let you all in on a little secret. You will never find your soulmate, because they do not exist, at least not yet. What you might find if you’re brave enough to look for it is a lot of interesting new people who are less than an ideal match when you meet them, but as you get to know these people, genuinely for who they are and what makes them interesting, not for how they might fit into your life, you might discover that one of them is especially interesting and you’ll start to shift a bit, and they’ll start to shift a bit, and eventually you might just BECOME each other’s soulmate. But you won’t start there. Dating isn’t marriage. Dating is about getting to know another person (more than likely, many other people). Go out with people you might not usually go out with. Don’t be picky. I’m not telling you to settle, but I’m telling you that everybody (even you) is a work in progress and if you pass on people who aren’t perfect for you today, you won’t be around when they become perfect for you tomorrow.
A couple feeds a group of deer in a park setting. The man on the left wears a yellow yukata, while the man on the right wears a patterned yukata.
Japan, 2026
A man in a patterned shirt and brown pants is center stage, pointing at the camera with a smile. Behind him, a group of people in various costumes stand on risers, illuminated by colorful stage lights.
Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, 2026
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