Sometimes, thoughts plucked from messy minds, scribbled on scraps of paper, should be scrumpled up and left with the dirty dishes. Especially those scrawled on an empty stomach…

Heartbreak like I’ve never experienced it before. Boy it hurts💔

One year from today, my book, “Yes, I’m Still Here” comes out. Until then, I’m writing about some of the objects that survived the years inside it, starting with a dog tag I’ve carried through four countries and endless apartments, and a perfume I had to buy twice. Queer people are very good at making ordinary objects impossible to be neutral about. A shirt becomes a person. A perfume becomes a relationship. A song is suddenly banned from the aux for three years. What’s something you kept long after it stopped being just a thing?

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Booty small or is it the dysmorphia? (I‘m serious)

preview of ‘Subject to Change’, a new photography book by me and Nate Ansbach.

Do people date anymore? Or is everyone just players?

Someone at Sephora just came up to me and told me that i have really nice skin and it made my entire day 🫠