ari (@hazelnut_slut) • Collective gay friends app

ari @hazelnut_slut

passionate & artsy. private online but more interesting irl🫧

The work of not abandoning oneself is the scariest and most painful healing experiences. Especially since I cannot predict the future & also because it sometimes means that I have to leave someone who I find to be absolutely wonderful. 💔

I need some fucking dating advice.

do y’all ever have the thought that you need to be tied up.. like, immediately.

why do traumatized people fuck the best?????? like how am i supposed to make better life choices

This is tmi but idc because I wanna share this with my queer homies but watching Smallville makes me question everything about myself. Clark Kent is so fucking dreamy. And Lex...dear god. I would let him POUND ME from behind

happy trans visibility day!!! luv y’all sm!!!!!💘💘💘

just feel like putting this out here as the rising emotion of anxiety & panic exists in my body !!️

I ended things with that one person I went on a date with a few weeks ago. Idk they told me that they were interested & were wanting to see me again, but they felt very distant and avoidant and yea I think it’s safer to assume they are emotionally unavailable. I cannot entertain relationships like that anymore

the other day <33

the urge to be emotionally unavailable for the rest of my life

I went on a date with someone I’ve been talking to for the past couple of months and omg.... 💕💕💕💕💕

I bought tix to see a live show of a specific OG internet lesbian & I’ve been following the posts from her other shows & now I’m cringing because the vibes are feeling so inauthentic & performative and that makes me really sad bc i genuinely thought she was not like the others

the gay urge to dom a beautiful masc woman :)

all femmes have a bangs era (was going through a big breakup when I chose this hairstyle)

All of the astrology girlies & witches on twitter are SCARING me about March 2025 transits 😭😭😭 Allah, be with us🙏🏾 help me pass my karmic tests!!!

y’all...we cannot, like absolutely CANNOT, lose access to our individual expression and art. Fascism is trying to keep us away from what connects us to our bodies and our pleasure (and this goes beyond sexuality)

Americans, have you paid your taxes yet?? How are you navigating this tax season because I need good advice

This is going to sound super odd, and I hope that y’all can give space for a healthy, ethical & empowering interpretation of this statement to exist...but I am going to stop worrying about whether I’m offending someone or not. It’s making me lose connection to myself, my personal values & opinions. It’s making it difficult for me to tolerate being misunderstood. In which, part of emotional maturity is accepting that we will sometimes (more likely often) will be invalidated & misunderstood.

Posting this here

It snowed last night!!! 🌬️❄️

happy valentines day to all you rad bitches💘

I’ve been dreaming about sex a lot lately & it’s genuinely frustrating especially since there’s no one in my life that I want to have sex with (except the unavailable person I mentioned earlier)

everytime I choose to not wear makeup I’m convinced I look like an innocent church girl and it’s cringe

god this is me with the person I have this annoying limerence with.

anyone else experience physical chest pain from having feelings of love for someone who is not available for you?? If I wasn’t feeling so much limerence I would seriously have taken myself to the ER 💔

this is what u really want <3

took a field trip with my coworkers to the kinky museum earlier today & saw this in the library :))

Gender is hard for me to intellectually understand for my own identity. I politically identify as a woman, but I don’t assign my parts to a specific gender. The best way to say it is that “I’m a soul within a body”. I don’t view myself as masc at all, but I do view myself to have bro-y lesbian vibes. But at the same time I’m super girlypop but the genderless femme type. And I don’t have a specific preference for pronouns either. Prob just not he/him. Is this GNC????

this is my vibe tn 🌿🍃

what im known for <3

is it possible to post only to our followers & not to the world lolol

I AM NOT CHILL rn because a grown man just spoke to me disrespectfully!!!!!!!!! currently taking deep breaths before I end up making him a eunuch ~namafuckingste~

the exhibitionist part of me wants to post my artsy titty pics soooo badly

can’t stop stress eating pb out of the jar!!!!!!

Seeing queer people in love in the midst of all of this shit has been so grounding to me. Feeling very emotional & thankful this afternoon <3

I’m not seeing enough lesbian content on here. Where are the gay girlies?!!!

tb from when it wasn’t -8 zillion degrees out

me n you in another life :)

we do what we gotta do to find our center ~namaste

top of the morning!! <33