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Ahmad (@joytohaveinclass) - Collective Profile | Asbury Park, US 33. New Jersey, USA. Middle-eastern 1st, for better or worse. I love chatting with people and making new friends, so say hi! Follow @joytohaveinclass on Instagram. Recent posts: a mirrored room filled with numerous reflective, silver, bottle-shaped sculptures. the reflections create an infinite, disorienting effect., a digital card displays "london" with the union jack flag, "visiting for 9 days", and the dates "dec 12" and "dec 20" with an airplane icon., a man with a beard and glasses wears a baseball cap and a striped shirt as he sits in a leather chair., a man with a beard stands outside a stone building with an arched doorway and ivy growing on the side. he is wearing a striped t-shirt, dark pants, and white sneakers., a man with a beard and dark hair lies on a patterned rug, looking up at the camera., a close-up shot of a lined notebook page with handwritten text. the text appears to be lyrics or poetry, with phrases like "caribbean blue" and "i've gotten better..." visible., a grand stained glass window with vibrant blue hues dominates the interior of a gothic cathedral. ornate chandeliers cast a warm glow on the pews and altar below., a close-up shot of an ornate, antique art object featuring a flamingo sculpture perched atop a mother of pearl shell. the flamingo is intricately detailed with metallic wings and feathers, its beak slightly open as if in mid-call. the shell, likely a, a man with a beard and glasses smiles at the camera, wearing a white t-shirt and a white baseball cap. behind him, the sun sets over the toronto skyline, casting a warm glow on the water..
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Ahmad @joytohaveinclass

33. New Jersey, USA. Middle-eastern 1st, for better or worse. I love chatting with people and making new friends, so say hi!
Asbury Park, US
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I have a friend who is deluding themselves, in real time, about the state of their marriage. It makes me so frightened that someone would be feigning affection for me in the exact same way lol. Like…surely it’s better to be single than legit manipulate someone (and yourself) into thinking you care about them?
A mirrored room filled with numerous reflective, silver, bottle-shaped sculptures. The reflections create an infinite, disorienting effect.
It’s like Camarillo only silver mirrors runnin down the corridor - oh, man…
Sometimes I wonder what Agatha or Habib were up to 400 years ago at this very moment. What were they going through in their lives and were they happy?? Is happiness a state of mind or a combination of conditions? Why does it have to be an either/or? Maybe I wouldn’t be thinking these things if I had something else to occupy my Saturday 😩
A digital card displays "London" with the Union Jack flag, "Visiting for 9 days", and the dates "Dec 12" and "Dec 20" with an airplane icon.
My London can be described as kitschy British rock (The Family Jewels by Marina) meets lady Diana coquette vibes
Can’t wait to scream cry vomit on the dancefloor to this. The Brooklyn paramount better be jumpin! 🩵
A man with a beard and glasses wears a baseball cap and a striped shirt as he sits in a leather chair.
Meep
A man with a beard stands outside a stone building with an arched doorway and ivy growing on the side. He is wearing a striped t-shirt, dark pants, and white sneakers.
A man with a beard and dark hair lies on a patterned rug, looking up at the camera.
A lil floor rot time
A close-up shot of a lined notebook page with handwritten text. The text appears to be lyrics or poetry, with phrases like "Caribbean Blue" and "I've gotten better..." visible.
Everything’s whatever
Where would be a cute thanksgiving trip?
A grand stained glass window with vibrant blue hues dominates the interior of a gothic cathedral. Ornate chandeliers cast a warm glow on the pews and altar below.
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I stopped going to the gym when men only expressed interest in my body and not my mind. Is this dumb? Probably. But also depressing, and the fact the gym was 30+ mins away was all the justification I needed to give it all up.
Last year I took a hard look at my friendships and effectively burned them to the ground. I wasn’t supported at a time when I needed it most, and never asked for anything apart from sympathy and genuine empathy. I don’t regret it for a minute. Simultaneously, I made a commitment to really try to find my people, get off social media, and try making connections in real life. Holy sh*t, that was a bust lmao. Suburbs are the death of community, if it ever did exist here, and people are averse to being open and lowkey antisocial. It’s hard existing in a grey space where you don’t fit in with the norm, nor with the overwhelming majority of the minority. Often I feel like an alien. Calling all martians?
A close-up shot of an ornate, antique art object featuring a flamingo sculpture perched atop a mother of pearl shell. The flamingo is intricately detailed with metallic wings and feathers, its beak slightly open as if in mid-call. The shell, likely a
Mother of pearl flamingos always fascinated me
A man with a beard and glasses smiles at the camera, wearing a white t-shirt and a white baseball cap. Behind him, the sun sets over the Toronto skyline, casting a warm glow on the water.
No kisses in Toronto
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