Over the past few years I’ve been posting my gardening work on TikTok keeping it as a kind of personal diary of my projects, recently I’ve had a few posts get quite a lot of attention and it’s been a little overwhelming however something I wasn’t expecting was that guys would start messaging me like it’s some sort of dating app, am I wrong for feeling confused that posting a video of a garden stream should invite someone to ask if I’m in an open relationship or if I’m a top or bottom?