What can I do if I have feelings for someone who doesn’t have the same feelings?
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huwang
Thank you so much ❤️
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if you have feelings for someone who doesn’t feel the same, remind yourself of this: when you love someone, you naturally care about what they love. and if they don’t love you in return, then choosing to keep loving them would mean valuing something that disregards you — and that quietly conflicts with the love you owe yourself. it hurts, but sometimes the most honest act of love is letting go, for your own peace and dignity. instead, try falling in love with someone who effortlessly sees the beauty in you.
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casbahmike
Lock them in your home until their feelings change! 😂 Just kidding! Everyone here has given you good advice! There’s no easy answer and, unless you can make some kind of complete break in which you won’t ever see the object of your affections again, it’s going to be something you will constantly have to adapt to. Good luck!
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Unpopular advice? LET THEM NOT FEEL THE SAME. You’re not here to convince someone to choose you—you’re here to be CHOSEN by someone who feels it without hesitation. You feeling deeply isn’t a flaw—it’s proof that you’re capable of real connection. Their inability to meet you there? That’s not your burden to fix. Sometimes “no reciprocity” is the universe’s softest redirection. So take your heart back, wipe it clean, and save it for someone whose eyes light up just because you exist. It’s not rejection. It’s realignment. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
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