Let me hold your hand as I say this… Avoidant. Anxious. Scorpio. Cancer. ENFJ. Love languages. Mel Robbins. Whatever else is trending in the psych/therapy buzzword universe… These are all just archetypes and stereotypes. Tools to help you *understand*. Language to help you *communicate*. Like you do know, not dating an avoidant will mean just dealing with different issues in an anxious attachment person. Not dating a Cancer bc of your ex, will still result in dealing with whatever ‘flaws’ a Scorpio has. Hunni, EVERYONE has issues. So please don’t be so reductive that you cast someone out just because they come with a label you’ve had issues with in the past. Arguably then, the issue lies with you my friend. With peace and love 💞 (Also, not a hit piece)