My bestie, who is actually the man I’m in love with at least for four years now, told me yesterday he’s struggling with his relationship because his boyfriend don’t take care enough of his actions when it has something to do with the red lines they BOTH put in it. He was also crying when he told me that and I felt his pain, and the only thing I could think about was that I cannot imagine how someo could hur that marvelous person I had in front of me. He deserves better ❤️‍🩹
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frafrabia
Does he know how you feel about him? An honest conversation could be a great start regardless of the outcome
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pabllt
He knows. We had “something” and then he decided to stay as friends.
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frafrabia
Fair, are you okay with the decision? Or you just have to accept it? The good thing is; he still feels safe to discuss those personal things with you. You have a friend for life or maybe a potential future boyfriend 😊 good luck pab🙌🏾
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pabllt
We are close friends, you know. Like, I mean, we built a strong relationship as friends and for me it ok, he’s one of the best persons I know. It’s just hurtful to see someone you love being struggling.
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frafrabia
I know the feeling, sending both of you love and strength ❤️
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maksklin
So I mean why wouldn’t u just talk to him, about the way u feel
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un.nico.de.lava
That situation reminds me a spanish speaking song called “Yo quisiera” by Reik. You should search the translation
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